Social media is one the most innovative tools of our generation. From networking to sharing ideas and building a brand or business, social media does have its perks.
It is easier now more than ever to meet new people, stay connected with distant family and stay updated with what’s going on in the world around us. Generations before us did not have this privilege growing up. Unfortunately, this privilege is taken advantage of in all the bad ways.
Things take a turn when certain things find their way onto social media platforms for all to see.
As students, we should be even more aware of the things we spread on public platforms because your future employer could very well stumble across your accounts.
Being mindful of the things we post is necessary because as we all know, your business is not everyone’s business.
These are a few things that you should never do on social media:
1. Spread Hate
Social media gives you a bigger voice, and with that voice, you should use it to spread love not hate. Being hateful towards others in regard to their race, ethnicity, religion, class, gender or sexuality is a huge no. No one wants to follow a negative Nancy. We all have opinions but saying the wrong thing can get you into some trouble. Be encouraging, not degrading.
2. Get Too Personal
Social media could be an outlet to get a couple of things off your chest, but that is not always the best option. There is a good chance that everyone following you is not a close friend or family member. Even if so, your posts can be shared among others and now everyone knows your business. You got a job promotion? That’s a great accomplishment to share. Your partner cheated on you? You might want to exclude that. Some things are better left unsaid.
3. Bash Your Boss or Professor
This is a no brainer but still it happens. News flash: professors are active on social media and so is your boss. If you speak poorly on the wrong person, the outcome will not be so pretty. You do not want to potentially lose your job or alter the way your professor views you as a student because of one irresponsible tweet. Think twice before pressing “send”. If you need to release some stress and choicy words, grab a friend to tell it all to, not your phone.
4. Engage in Personal Arguments
Keep your arguments in the text messages, not on the timeline for everyone to see. Emotions can get the best of you and you may feel conflicted to let it all out on cyberspace, but don’t. Try talking to the person(s) in private.
5. Harass Others
Social media gives others courage to say and do things they would never do in person, and that is not always a good thing. Constantly messaging someone or leaving unwanted comments is extremely annoying, unprofessional and makes you look like a psychopath. Whether it’s posting negative comments or entering someone private messages who is not interested, both are harassment and unacceptable.