The person you like is going on spring break.
First, you must determine your relationship with the person.
Second, you are going to read my suggestions.
Third, Figure out what the F you want to do.
- You’re dating.
- Situationship
- A friend that you like
- A guy you’re snapchatting.
- The cutie in your class that you’ve talked to twice
Here’s my advice,
Number one.
If you’re dating someone and they are going on spring break with their family, then why even worry? If they’re going on a spring break with their friends, again, why even worry? If there’s a bunch of girls (or whatever your prerogative) running around half naked and drunk, then why even worry? Fortunately, and unfortunately, people are very simple creatures, they wouldn’t be dating you if they truly didn’t want to. I know it’s a hard concept to grasp, but if you’re in a committed relationship you should not be worried if the person you are dating is going on spring break, unless they give you a reason to worry. If they give you a reason to worry, the relationship is not worth keeping, but if they don’t sit back and relax and have fun with what you’re doing.
Number two.
I would rather eat a plate of cottage cheese than ever be in a situationship ever again. Unless you and your situationship have established a boundary about where you stand, then you’re single. I hate to break it to you, but you are. Treat “spring break” as you would if you were 100% single. They do them, you do you, and decide how to progress when you both get back. This is a good determinant if you’re trying to feel out if this situationship could turn into a real relationship.
Number three.
The Friendzone is tricky, however it is the best place to be. Treat spring break like an information session. Your “friend” may see you as a confidant, and they may tell you about the action or lack of, they got on spring break. You’re in a great position, you’re learning about your friend’s “activities” with no pressure. Just be calm, and remember if something is meant to be it will be. Keep in mind, the best way to get into the endzone is to spend some time in the friendzone.
Number four.
If this is a “snapchat” relationship, it is not a relationship. Put your phone down, and have a fun spring break, and don’t worry about some person on your phone.
Number five.
Get a grip. Admire their tan after spring break, ask them about their time, but DO NOT go feral over someone you borrow notes from.
Though these may be harsh, they’ll help keep you SANE on Spring Break. Remember, it is also YOUR spring break, therefore you need to enjoy it. Don’t let another person’s activities, or vacation interfere with yours.
(I am no way responsible for how this plays out, unless it’s good.)
Always, with love, MK <3