There is nothing more confusing than the games that guys play when it comes to a budding relationship in college. We have all had those moments where we endlessly agonized over Snapchats and texts that he’s sent you. Here are 8 surefire ways to know when to call it quits.
1.He leaves you on read… This one might seem obvious but when a guy lets you know that he read the text and didn’t even bother with a reply it’s time to cut your losses because trust me ladies, you deserve to be a priority…NOT an afterthought!
2. He opens your snaps and replies sporadically or not at all…
A definite sign that he’s not into you is when you’re trying to have a simple convo on Snap and he opens it and takes forever to reply or opens it and doesn’t reply at all. This one might seem obvious but after a few opened snaps, take a second to think “Is he even worth it?”
3. When he only hits you up with a “WYA” text at 2 a.m. on saturday nights Any guy that just wants to hang out late at night is probably not looking for anything serious. He may be into you physically but he isn’t someone who will be there for you in the morning.
4. He doesn’t ask you about your day/doesn’t try to get to know you
If he makes no effort to get to know you as a person, the chances are he isn’t interested in forming any kind of relationship. You want someone who genuinely cares about you and your wellbeing.
5. He doesn’t talk about himself
If he really cares about you he will want to share info about himself with you. If he is shady about himself then that is an automatic red flag. You don’t want to commit to someone you barely even know.
6. His friends don’t know who you are
This is another automatic red flag. If you guys are getting “serious” his friends should at least recognize you as someone their friend talks to. If they don’t that means he could be hiding you or something else!
7. He doesn’t say “hi” in public If he doesn’t acknowledge you in public then he is definitely hiding something. No guy that you are into should be afraid to say “hi”. It’s little things like this that tell you what kind of guy he is/ how he feels about you.
8. He doesn’t interact with you on social media
If he doesn’t like your Instas or interact with you on social media even in the smallest way he could be trying to hide you. He might not want there to be any public evidence between you two.
If your potential significant other is pulling any of these 8 signs it’s time to say goodbye! Nobody deserves to be treated like an afterthought or a secret. But don’t worry. If it doesn’t work out, there are plenty of other people out there. Hold your head high and stay confident! Loving who you are no matter what is what is most important!