It’s Saturday night. Sports, clubs and activities are over for the day. Darkness falls over the campus and the Cox Hall tower lights up. This can only mean one thing: it’s time to get ready for a night out!
But what to wear? As you probably know, this can be a very challenging decision…take it from the girl who went to her first frat party in Bermuda shorts and a striped tank. Let’s just say I learned very quickly that going out in college is very different than going out back home. In high school, I wore the same thing no matter where I was going for the night: typically jeans and a plain t-shirt or sweater. Maintain that habit at Emory and you will probably feel pretty out of place amongst all the little black dresses, hip-hugging skirts, crop-tops, and high heels.
But, not to worry! Her Campus Emory has created the following guidelines to help you find the right outfit on the right night:
Fratty Fun
Pick something you won’t be too hot in (literally). No matter what the weather is outside, there is no doubt that the second you walk through that frat door, you’ll be overwhelmed by hot, humid air, and masses of sticky, sweaty bodies. (Editor’s note: Remind me why we ever hang out at frats)
Show some skin. If you’re a bold soul, you might choose a super short skirt and a lacy top. For the more subtle types, opt for a flowy, wide-strapped sundress.
No tennis shoes. Unless of course there’s a golf pros, tennis hoes theme to the evening.
To wear heels? Or not to wear heels? Heels are also a “no” for me since I can’ t keep from stumbling every five feet. I go for strappy sandals, dressy flip-flops or flats. However, some girls can pull off the heel look. Make a personal and informed decision and stick to it.
Accessorize appropriately. Sparkly and eye-catching jewelry can add to a frat outfit, but make sure nothing will be hitting you or your partner in the eye while dancing. Bags are an inconvenience; instead, pick a small clutch or wristlet that will hold your phone, ID, keys, and possibly even some lip-gloss.
It’s a Girls’ Night
Girls’ night is another story. The right outfit can range from slumber party casual to sophisticated club wear. Step number one: know where you’re going.
If it’s a “chill night,” (my friends’ term for staying in and watching a movie, making popcorn, and doing nails) wear whatever the heck you want. I personally wear soft sweatshirts and leggings. Slippers and fluffy socks are legitimate footwear options.
A house party for girls is definitely more sophisticated than a frat party.
The dress code is usually casual and cute, meaning don’t look like a slob but don’t squeeze your feet into 5-inch heels, either. I look for jeans and a nice cardigan, but any standard Banana Republic or Gap styles should work. For jewelry, silver and simple is my motto. I’ll wear a plain necklace or charm bracelet to add class, but anything fancy stays at home.
The last scenario is ladies club night. For these, there are many things to consider. If your friends are hardcore, you might want to stick with traditional frat wear: tight and short. If your friends are chill, you choose. Jeans and a tank top always make a great combination, and if you’d rather avoid stilettos, go for a shorter pair of wedges.
Let’s face it, going out in college is umpteen times better than it was in high school. Follow these guidelines and your dress-up time before going out will be that much more fun too!