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Dear Bachelor Nation

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at CUA chapter.

Dear Bachelor Nation,

I am going to tell you the different reasons as to why Lauren B was the obvious choice for Bachelor Ben from the beginning.

Well it happened, year in and year out we hear Chris Harrison utter the same famous words, “this year on the most dramatic season finale yet…” it actually came true. We have seen crazy bachelors/bachelorettes, we have seen the no proposals, the fights and the last minute women switch-ups but never has one bachelor been in love with TWO women. JoJo the sultury brunette who brought out a side of Ben that he loved and has never felt more himself when with her. But than we have Lauren B, the beautiful and sweet Californian blonde whom, we all saw have an instant connection from the beginning with Ben. The nation was divided with who it going to be; will it be the girl with the instant and ever lasting connection that ends up with Ben or the Texas knockout who brings out a different side to him? As you know, (or if you haven’t found out already) this is who Ben Higgins choose: 

A lot of us probably could have guessed that this was the outcome even though maybe in your heart you wished it could have been JoJo at the end. But hate to break it to ya, you had to have seen it coming. On almost every group date, Lauren B and Ben would go off for a good amount of time away from the group to spend together. Durng those special moments between Ben and Lauren B I would forget they were even on a group date or even what I was watching because they seemed like a happily, in love couple already and whom prehaps are on their own reality show. Remember pig island when all the girls were up in arms about how much time Lauren and Ben were spending together and the connection they all saw between them? Let’s face it ladies, we can spot a great connection from a mile away…just like we can a lier and a cheater…when a guy wants to spend time with the one they want, they’ll find a way to spend time with them even with 20 somethin’ beautiful women surrounding him. 

During hometown dates, Lauren B’s family welcomed Ben with open arms and did we all forget the beautiful and sincere moment when Ben cried…yes CRIED when he spoke about his feelings for Lauren B. Again, when have you ever seen a man cry over a women he didn’t love, if he got that emotional over speaking about her before he revealed he loved her imagine their wedding! And when he finally did reveal that he loved her, he said “i’ve known for a long time,” scoot over JoJo because he might have been in love with her as well but between that instatnt connection and spark…nothing can come between that, it was just…well meant to be.

And lets give it up to Bachelor Ben Higgins for being the most classy, respectful, charming and handsome bachelor to date. He was always honest and open with all of the women, asking for their trust in him and being honest. Ben gave women second chances even when they didnt deserve to be there and when things got a little out of hand (LACE) *COUGH, COUGH*…he gave everyone a fair chance. From Bachelor Nation, we wish all the love and happiness Mr. and Mrs. Ben Higgins…cheers to you and here’s to the next bachelorette JoJo!