We’ve all been taught condoms are a must in the effort to prevent pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and infections. The truth is, as we all know, the safest sex is no sex. But I realize this is reality and the rules of sex have changed tremendously over the years.
There is a safer alternative to sex and that is sex-toys, but just like anything else, research needs to done to make sure the product is safe and risk free.
Unknown to most, some sex toys are made with harmful chemicals known as phthalates, which turn hard plastics into soft and flexible items. Phthalates can be found in shower curtains and children’s toys and were put on the Environmental Protection Agency’s “may present a risk” list. Typically, jelly toys contain phthalates.
According to Billy Johnson, manager of the Lover’s Lane in Lincoln Park, if a sex-toy smells weird, it’s possible it contains phthalates. “Toys made out phthalates smell,” says Johnson. “They have a bad odor. If you have a [body-safe] toy and you take it out of the package, you aren’t going to be passed out because of the smell.”
Typically, toys with this chemical are greasy and the substance will rub off onto your hands with the slightest touch. Now imagine using that in your body. But since sex-toys aren’t regulated by the Federal Drug Administration and are considered novelty items, there has yet to be a direct correlation between the effects of phthalates in sex-toys and women.
Danelle Wylder, a sex-toy specialist at Tulip Toy Gallery says using a toy made with Phthalates may cause yeast infections, urinary tract infections and some may contain carcinogens, but this is only an assumption. It’s hard to keep tabs on this information since it’s not regulated for human body usage.
This is why both Wylder and Johnson say they educate their customers who might not know these things.
It’s said the best material for a sex-toy is medical grade silicone, such as the WeVibe, which was featured on Oprah and Dr. Oz. The WeVibe is also known as the “couple’s vibrator” and can be worn while making love. Another good brand is Lelo, which offers a variety of different body-safe toys.
Glass dildos are also a safe bet. They are dishwasher safe, are non-porous and can’t harbor bacteria or smell. Glass sex toys don’t deteriorate over time and can’t absorb anything.
Remember, do your research and even if a packaging says phthalate free, sex toys aren’t regulated and can contain phthalates and other harmful chemicals contrary to what is said on the packaging. Safety first!!!
Check back for a more in-depth article on different brands, next week.