My definition of the strong woman varies, I suppose, based on their role in society, and how much of an impression they make on the people around them. There are those like Gloria Steinem, who fought for her rights as a woman, and is part of the reason that women are even considered remotely close to men in terms of social rank. And then thereâs someone like Carly Simon, who expressed her discontent with menâs vanity through song, and looked and sounded great doing it. And then there are those like Serena Williams, who has received nearly the same amount of respect as a tennis player as any man has, and who also could bench me upwards of fifty times. And then there are those like Carla Aronsohn, who demonstrates her strength with her role as âLesidentâ of The Bridge, as she so aptly puts it, as well as her role on the woodsmen teamâboth physical and emotional strength apply.
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Carla and I donât have a whole lot in common, except that we lived in the same dorm freshman year, and we both went on the Sundance Jan Plan last year. But somehow, weâve developed a friendship, which I think was, at first, based on the fact that Carla inspires me, not only because she is so active in the Colby community, but also because she is so comfortable with herself. Iâm not sure Iâve ever met somebody with such strong convictions and such a radiant personality who gets along with so many different types of people. Sheâs so versatileâthe opposite of an introvert; she is open to getting to know people, and always speaks her mind. But she doesnât judge those who are far more closed-minded than she is, the way I do. She suspends all presumptions, and instead, gets to know someone based on the content of their character. I wish I could say the same about myself.
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Carlaâs wit goes a long wayâthe way the answered the questions I asked her was both intelligent, and hilarious. She just tells it like it is. Whether sheâs doing things for The Bridge, video-blogging for Inside Colby, chopping wood for the woodsmen team, or preparing for Green Graduation, Carla brings her spunk and talent wherever she goes. And because sheâs so articulate, Iâve decided to write this article in question and answer form so that you, as a reader, can hear Carlaâs voice, her endearing sense of humor, and her articulate nature of speaking.
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EA: Tell me a little bit about the woodsman team. How did you get involved? What do you do for them?
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CA: The woodsmen team is awesome. Itâs my favorite thing I do at Colby. The group of people whom I do it with are so interesting and diverse and beautiful. Going down there is completely different than being on campus. You feel like youâre in a completely different place. We chop wood, saw wood, toss wood, throw axes at wood, etc. We do anything you can do with wood, and make sexual innuendos about wood, all the time. I axe throw, and I like the vertical chopâitâs really a simulation of felling a tree. And I usually do fire building. We do activities as a group, too, like we did an outreach program with Hardy Girls Healthy Women. We got to tell them why we love being on the woodsmen team so much, and they got to try stuff out. They use hatchets to split cookies; it was so adorable. There are always a few that say, âI thought only boys do this!â but then they try it and theyâre just like âyes!â
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EA: What do you do to prepare for a woodsman meet?
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CA: We do two-a-days for two weeks before a meet. I think that weâre not recognized on campus as a team that works really hard and displays a lot of effort, but we really do. Woodsmen women won the New England championships last year. We also do lots of team bonding. I think itâs just as important as practicing. I think that when weâre bonded, we do much better. We spend time in either really hot temperatures, or really cold temps and working our butts off. Itâs important to have team spirit to get through it.
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EA:How often do you practice?
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CA: We have practice 5 days a week from 3-5 or 4-6 depending on the winter or summer. Most people probably go down 2-3 times a week when there isnât a meet coming up. We do it all year round, like we have a meet in February in Nova Scotia, which is going to be really cold and really awesome. The practices arenât closed off to people on the team. Anyone can bring someone down and try anything with someone on the woodsman team.
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EA: Have you found that your woodsman skills to be particularly helpful outside of your meets?
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CA: Yeah, I mean I think in a way it teaches you to be efficient in hands-on skills that you do. To be able to light a fire quickly while not wasting time getting bad kindling is pretty important. Since Iâm an Environmental science major, knowing a lot about trees is really helpful. And itâs so important to the Maine economy. The wood that we cut up is sold as firewood to people in town, or the Colby Outing Club buys it. Our âsnacks binâ with cookies and chips (wood-shavings) goes to the biomass pile. When the biomass plant goes in, weâll be making energy for the school. Itâs pretty cool to think about.
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EA: Tell me about your role in the Bridge.
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CA: As of now, Iâm âLesident,â but in the spring, Iâll be a co-president. Pat, who is abroad, will join me when he returns. Weâre trying to help Colby be a more inclusive environment for both the queer and the allied. Jess Acosta (former Bridge president) always talked about how closeted people were her freshmen year, and how people are much better and more open now. Iâve seen freshmen coming in with much more openness, which is really great. To make people feel part of the community, we do a lot of programming on campus. We also do outreach into the community. We work with Waterville High School, going into their health classes once a semester. Itâs really important for people to know gay people and successful queer people who get through those tough times in high school and are comfortable with themselves. We open the floor to any questions they have and answer any misconceptions. We usually have a really good dialogue, too. Itâs so amazing. Something I see that gets swept under the rug is that people with conservative view points donât speak out about it as much as kids in the Waterville Public schools. Often times itâs the discussion of âwhy should we not say thatâs so gay?â because in high school, people say that all the time. Educating people on how things you say can be hostile towards people who are different from you.
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EA: What are your plans for the Bridge as a leader in it?
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CA: One thing we did this semester is focus on trans issues. Transgender November. It included a faculty staff dinner, Rachel Isaacs talked about trans in the Hebrew Bible, and Jenny Boylan will read from her gendered memoir. We had trans rappers come, and we had a performance in the coffee house. Thatâs something that doesnât get touched on as much. It seems further from people at Colby. That sort of education is really important. People do have to come out again and again. Itâs not just like the Bridge has a âcoming out meeting,â I have to go if Iâm gay. Itâs not that. Itâs that these spaces are available, and itâs celebrating the sexual diversity of people. We have pride week coming up in âGayprilâ which is such a blast because itâs such a visual disruption. Last year we had the rainbow columns of Miller, which we werenât really supposed to do, but hell, we did it anyway. And the drag ball is always really well attended. Last year, there had to have been more than 300 people there. Ww might have to move it to page this year, but I love it in Foss, too.
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EA: How do you think Colby could improve gender and sexuality resources on campus? Do you have any ideas about how to make this campus a more comfortable place for everyone?
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CA: Well, with recent events on campus, I think about it in two ways, that first of all, men need to be held to a higher standard, and that they need to take responsibility of their actions. And then that girls need to be more empowered on campus. Freshmen women coming in need to understand what the animal is that youâre dealing with at Colby, and they need to feel empowered. Upper classmen women need to pass the empowerment down to the younger ones. And then there were a lot of homophobic acts that were happening at the beginning of the year. Keeping those dialogues going. People who have posted on the discourse are so brave to come out and say these things on a public forum. If there are athletes on this campus who are willing to be out, it says a lot. We have come a long way. People need to fuck the status quo and just do their own thing, not worry about pressures, etc. Just do what you feel is right, and support your friends who seem happy, even if theyâre not doing something thatâs congruent with the group mentality. People are becoming preoccupied with a lot of things that just donât matter.
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EA: You are involved in environmental stuff on campus. Tell me about that. How did you get involved?
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CA: Iâm pretty involved in green graduation. Green graduation is set up to help make graduation as green as possible. Which ends up needing to have a lot of hands-on involvement. We need to compost things at the outdoor dinners. Itâs a really good event for publicity for parents and alums to know whatâs going on on campus. The âgreeningâ of Colby is pretty institutionalized. Buying almost 100% renewable energy, biomass, etc. They do a lot.
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EA: What is it like coming from Miami and going to college in Maine?
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CA: Itâs extremely different. First off, itâs probably 80 degrees there. And itâs, what, 20 or 30 degrees here? I wanted to get far away, and be in a very different environment. I love the different terrain, and the forests that you donât get in Miami. But I miss being on the water and going to the beach and being able to sail. My public high school was on an island that there was 1 bridge to get to. Itâs great, but I love traveling, and this is kind of just like getting to immerse myself in 2 completely different cultures. And itâs great to go back to Miami in the winter. Itâs also fun to tell people about Miami because when you meet people and they ask where youâre from, they expect Boston or NY. They just donât know how to handle people from Miami. Someone asked me if I was from Canada because I wear flannel or something.
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EA: How do you find time to do all of the things you do, and still get your work done?
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CA: Oh if only I ever got my work done. This is all my work, I mean, Iâm putting it on myself. I could stop, but I donât because itsâ fucking important. Itâs important to the people who go here, itâs important to me. I also think what Iâm involved in is very liberal arts, and all the classes I take are all every interconnected.
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EA: Whatâs your favorite thing about Colby?
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CA: The people. I mean the people are what make this place. We kind of have this blank slate to work with. 25% of the population is overturning, so itâs the people who make everything happen here on a social level. And then the teachers are amazing, too. Itâs so great when they can engage in class with whatâs happening on campus. The people that make it up are what make Colby, and keep the traditions going.
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EA: Whatâs your favorite Colby memory?
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CA: When in Foss there was a spontaneous dance party, which started at a woodsman cookie dinner, and we put in one of our woodsman CDs. Everyone just felt that the energy was so high. People were on tables and chairs. We need to bring that energy back to Colby. But the problems shouldnât be silenced, either. We canât just go back to the way people were feeling before break. Things get silenced and swept under the rug all the time at Colby. People need to learn to break the silence and get away from those patterns. Oh and then obviously breakfast with Bobbi Star (porn star that came and talked at Colby last year)âbest breakfast of my life. Bagels and talking about strap-ons and fisting? Yes.
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EA: Whatâs your favorite place on earth?
CA: Above the Arctic Circle. I was in Greenland this summer doing some research with a geology group on climate change affects and melting Permafrost and studying ice core samples. Itâs nothing like studying science in a class. Just being in the heart of a study is so amazing, which is why I think Iâm interested in film and science. Just being in your study is what living life kind of is.
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EA: If you could meet one celebrity, whom would you meet and why?
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CA: Rachel Maddow, and Iâd ask her to be our graduation speaker. That would be awesome. Even though it probably wonât happen.
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EA: Anything else youâd like to add?
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CA: I made a âSexumentaryâ last year. It was a big film project that I did with Tamar Hassan â11 and Madeline Gordon â11. She helped a lot in production and getting a lot of those interviews, like people Tamar and I couldnât necessarily tap like Pat Burns. I guess we got the idea after watching some sexually liberating films at Sundance last Jan Plan. The ways in which people interact with each other and how they think about sex and how they talk about sex interested us, but the real thing we wanted was to hear was sex stories. So we made this film: sex tales of Colby and creative reenactments of it. It was really fun to do. With the group of very comfortable actors and people we had, a lot of people were telling stories, not directly about themselves, but about other people. I want to make another short film, a sort of genre called âgender fuckâ for drag ball. I have a super 8 camera, and I want to look into how weâre supposed to perform in our gender. And I want to do a 2nd installment of the âSexumentary.â I think Iâll call it, âThe Animal Behavior in the Page Mating Grounds.â Thatâs a joke, though⊠or is it?
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Colby chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.