Anastasia Rozakos
Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and you know what that means. It’s officially time to prepare yourself for the holiday season. Family is wonderful but can also be a lot. So, what do you do when you are trapped with your aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents and more? You survive. Luckily for you, I’ve created a guide to help you get through this holiday season with cheer and as little violence as possible.Â
No. One Get Out of the KitchenÂ
Now I get it. It’s Thanksgiving time, so you’ve probably been roped into making a dish or two. However, do not let this keep you in the kitchen all day. Make your dish and get out (while you still can). Only two things can come from being in the kitchen during the holidays. One, extra work for you (which, depending on who you’re helping out, could be a good thing). Or two, the real kicker, you could be setting off a ticking time bomb. The only thing more stressful than cooking during the holidays is cooking while people are lounging around the space you are using. Do everyone a favor and stay out of the kitchen when it’s not absolutely necessary.Â
No. Two Learn to Listen
No, I don’t mean just doing what everyone and their mother is telling you to do. When I say ‘listen,’ I mean just that: listen. Secrets and drama are about as common as pie around the Holidays. So instead of spilling your business, listen to what other people are saying. I promise you it is infinitely better to hear other people’s problems than it is to hear them talking about yours. So, when in doubt, close your mouth and listen to your family talks (plus, it tends to be pretty interesting).Â
No. Three Appreciate the ChaosÂ
I know this whole list sounds like complaints, and that the holidays aren’t always easy, but remember to enjoy them. Time with family is as imperfect as it is invaluable. Even when they are grating on your last nerve, try to take a moment to appreciate them. The holidays are chaotic and stressful, but they are filled with love. Whether it’s infused into the food you eat, or your family trying to solve a problem on your behalf (wanted or not), it’s full of love. One of the best things you can do to survive the holidays is to sit in the chaos of it all and appreciate all the effort that’s gone into making it what it is.Â
We know the holidays aren’t an easy time for everyone. If you’re lucky enough to have a loving family to celebrate with, appreciate it. If you aren’t as lucky, know that you are not alone. Your people are out there, and you are more loved than you know. Happy holidays from Her Campus at Clemson, and good luck (we are all going to need it)!