1. You have no idea what to expect
And your parents don’t either. Pretty much every other experience you’ve ever had and will ever have, you’re the guinea pig. There’s no older sibling to give you advice and pass down knowledge. That’s all on you. Embrace the unknown you brave soul!
2. You have no one to boss around
Younger siblings where are you? Maybe I’ll Facetime them and see what’s going on (and make sure it’s acceptable).
3. You appreciate the alone time but miss the busy lifestyle back home
You’ve always loved your alone time and college gives you plenty of that. However, the silence can sometimes get too much and, even though you swore you’d never miss it, you find yourself craving the constant state of craziness back home.
4. You‘re much more mature than a lot of your friends
But, really, this has always been this case. The responsibility that you were naturally instilled with as an oldest child sets you apart from many of your friends. Even though you don’t always show it, you might not always fully approve of the 3 a.m. dance parties your hall mates seem to like to throw on Tuesday nights.
5. You find that you gravitate towards other oldest kids when making friends
Another trend you’re used to. Opposites do attract, but you can form strong bonds when you find another person with that oh-so-familiar, stereotypical, naturally “oldest child” personality.
6. You can handle the freedom
You appreciate being able to run your own schedule and do things on your own terms. You’re very independent and this can be a blessing when it comes to the crazy college workload that many people struggle with when given this new responsibility.
7. It’s tough, but you’ll do great, as always
You know it, your parents know it and your friends know it. You’ve handled new and difficult situations before and this is no different! You can rely on your intelligence, personal responsibility and the capability you know you have to get you through with huge success!