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#WhoIAm: I Am a Strong, Smart and Powerful Woman

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Chapel Hill chapter.

Who am I? 

So many phrases come to mind. I am someone who loves life, loves coffee and loves to travel. I am someone who loves to explore the world, loves music and concerts and loves all of the sweet sounds that the world has to offer.

I am also a woman. That’s the main thing that comes to my mind when I am asked this question, especially when writing for an online publication such as Her Campus. I am a woman, and, along with that, I am so many other things. 

I am strong. I am smart. I am powerful. I see the troubles in the world, and I do what I can to work through them, and I accomplish good things in a world that could really use a few good things. I am strong in the sense that I can work with what I am given. I am strong because I can stand up to the things that scare me, and I am strong because I work through my personal fears. I am powerful because I stand up for what I can, and I help where help is needed. 

I’m not perfect. I make mistakes just like everyone else, but I try to do the best that I can with the hand that I’ve been dealt. I like to hang out with friends, get pumpkin spice everything in the fall, get my nails done and stay in for a good, old fashioned girls’ night. At the same time, I like to do homework, read as much as I can on topics I find interesting, try my hardest and do my best, both in school and out in the world.

I want to exert a presence of strength, happiness, love and power. I want to be a lot of things, and I always want to be the best that I can be. 

I am doing my best with the beautiful gift of life I have been given, and I will continue to do that for the rest of my life. I may not be perfect, and, in fact, I may be a little complicated in the ways that I think, process and live my life, but I think that’s okay. It’s what makes me a unique individual. 

I am a woman. I’m also a human being. I am smart, strong, powerful and a little bit of everything in between. And I love living my life as such.

I’m not sure who you are, but I hope you can embrace whoever that person is. I hope that you can come to know, love and appreciate your knowledge, strength and power. I hope that, one day, we can all come to love living our lives as the wonderful people that we are. 

Ashley Oldham

Chapel Hill '20

Ashley Oldham is a senior English and Comparative Literature and Sociology double major at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. In her free time she enjoys drinking way too much coffee, attempting to write the next great American novel, and going on spontaneous road trips, all in the name of procrastinating on whatever schoolwork she currently has to do. To see what she's doing next (and get bombarded with cat pictures) follow her on Instagram @ashleyyerinno.