There is something about female friendships that just hits differently. The kind of friendship where you can go weeks without seeing each other and then pick up right where you left off like no time has passed. The ones where you can sit at the same café, have the same conversations over and over again, and somehow it never gets boring. Where you can debrief for hours, cry when you need to, laugh until your stomach and cheeks hurt, and know without a doubt that your friends will always pull through for you.
I have been lucky enough to always have strong women around me. I have five sisters and a strong mother, so I have grown up knowing what it means to be surrounded by independent, driven, and supportive women. That experience has shaped not only what I look for in a friend but also how I show up in my friendships. The strongest relationships in my life are with my female friends; there really is no comparison to having “girl talk,” getting ready to go out together, face timing for hours discussing a topic we’ve already talked about a million times, or just “non-verbal time” scrolling on TikTok.
A New York Times article states that women overwhelmingly turn to their friends as their emotional support system. Whether we’re struggling with something personal, navigating relationships, or just dealing with everyday stress, we know our female friends will be there. It is a bond built on trust, understanding, and the kind of deep connection that is hard to find somewhere.
Why Female Friendships Matter So Much
We live in a world that constantly romanticizes romantic relationships, but what about friendships? Why do we not celebrate them the same way? If anything, strong female friendships are just as fulfilling, if not more. They offer:
Unmatched Emotional Support
No one hypes you up like your best friend. Whether it is a major life decision or a simple “should I text them back?” moment, they will always have your back.
A Judgment-free Free Safe Space
There is nothing like venting to your best friend, knowing she will listen, understand, and probably say “girl, same!”
Consistency and Longevity
While relationships may come and go, true friendships have a way of standing the test of time. A ten-plus-year friendship with a strong woman is unmatched.
A Source of Strength and Inspiration
Being surrounded by driven, independent women makes you want to be better. You push each other to grow, succeed, and reach your goals.
Cherishing the Friendships We Have
In a world that is always pushing us to be busy, prioritize work, and focus on relationships, it is easy to let friendships take a back seat. But honestly, for me, these connections are what keep me grounded. They are the people we lean on, the ones who lift us up, and the ones who remind us of who we are when we forget.
So if you have strong female friendships in your life, cherish them. Make time for them. Celebrate them.
