The sun is shining, the birds are singing and that guy in your psychology class has never looked better. Is it that his hair is tousled from a recent game of pick-up soccer on the field between classes or is it that little bit of tan he’s gotten lately? Realistically, it doesn’t matter what started it—here you are now, weeks from exams, and the love bug has bitten you.
Of course, finding yourself swept up in a budding romance can be exciting. Catching somebody’s eye is extremely flattering. Going on those first dates, having those first connecting moments and even sharing a first kiss are memories you’ll likely treasure. Heck—you may even find ‘Mr. or Ms. Right,’ since statistically 25% of marriages begin by meeting in university. But is it really the best idea now?
With a new fling comes new drama, and that can quickly clutter your ability to think straight. Will you be able to focus on studying for exams properly if you get into your ‘first argument’ or if you’re waiting on them to Skype you? After all, that’s why you’re here—to get an education. There are potentially hazardous situations to look out for as well. Do they have a miserable ex? That person might try to come between you and make your last month of school miserable. These are things we shouldn’t even be thinking about during exam review time.
With summer coming up soon, there’s a good chance that you and your new main squeeze will be separated for months. That means either you part ways and don’t speak or you’ll be tied to your cell phone for the next few months. Long distance can put strain on even the best of relationships, let alone a brand new one. That being said, summer can be a great test to see if a good friend who recently turned into a crush is really serious about dating you or if it was just the warm weather and excitement about the end of the year getting to them. “Long distance can make a relationship a lot stronger,” says first-year humanities student Carly Cushing. “You just have to work a little harder at it and make time for the other person.”
Even though it can be tough, choosing to go for your crush at this time of year can be rewarding. Exam time is stressful, and if the right person comes along, they can be great to talk to and can keep your spirits up during these next few weeks. “You can make it what you want; you can make it as serious or not serious as you want to,” says first-year music student Githmi Gunapala.
Realistically, you can’t choose when you’re going to suddenly meet somebody or start to fall for him or her, and only you can decide what’s right for you. Just make sure to weigh your options and make the choice that will be for the best.
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