It is no secret that Greek life is not for everyone. In fact, I was adamant that I would never join a sorority because of what I thought about them as an outsider looking in. But this semester I decided to join because I was feeling lonely and felt like I needed something to do to keep my mind occupied. From my very first recruitment party I knew that I was going to love being a part of this group of women.
If you talk to anyone that is in a sorority, I guarantee that they will say that it changed their lives for the better. I personally have only been in for a little while but I already see major changes to my self-confidence. My entire life I have struggled with social anxiety and have always been afraid of putting myself out there, but since I made this leap I have noticed that I am now so much more comfortable in new social situations. I was afraid that my grades would drop but it has been the opposite, I am now so much more motivated to strive for improvements because I now have 30 women rooting for me at everything I do. Any time I want to study I just text one of my sisters and they will be right there in the library to keep me on track and for reassurance whenever I stress myself out.
I think overall joining a sorority has made me a better person. One of the first things you are taught is that “you are always wearing your letters,” meaning I will always be representing my organization in everything I do and that kind of responsibility will make you want to try your hardest to maintain a certain standard. Through my sorority I have done hours of community service, learned how to plan an event, and have applied for leadership positions. I feel that this experience is preparing me for my future better than any class ever could because it is not only teaching me to believe in myself but I am also gaining experience in public speaking and holding positions on committees.
Hands down, the best part of becoming a sister is the deep bonds you form with all the girls. In the short time since joining I have made deeper connections to these girls than I have ever had in my life. I never have to worry about dealing with a crisis alone because I have a huge support system behind me. I have always craved close friendships with women and I was finally given that, I feel like I have found my home away from home. I have also learned a lot about myself as a person through this process in terms of how much I can handle. I was concerned that it would be hard to balance my school work with my obligations to the sorority but when you are doing something you love you will make time.
Honestly being a part of Greek life has already changed my life so drastically, I have learned so much from my sisters including acceptance. Being around so many different types of girls teaches you to embrace and accept differences. Thanks to Phi Sig, I have finally become the confident and happy person I have always wanted to be. My sorority is providing me tools that I will need to succeed in life and the desire to strive for more. I will forever be grateful that I was extended a bid from this wonderful group of ladies. Once, Always.