I have been lucky enough to have met some of the most amazing people that live all across the country mainly because of my experience with my “mini” study abroad. In the short time we spent together, we quickly all became very close friends so we wanted to make sure we remained connected. It can be difficult to maintain friendships when living far apart and when different time zones are at play. Here are a few tips I have learned that have kept us all connected.
Schedule Facetimes
With different time zones and schedules it can be difficult to answer random phone calls. My advice would be to schedule the Facetime so you can give the conversation your full attention. Setting aside some time in your day to talk to a friend is an act of self care and something that can be really fun!
See each other in person at least once a year
I know that travelling can be expensive and Covid has made it even more challenging to travel but seeing each other in person at least once a year is a goal in all of my long distance friendships. While Facetime and social media can keep you up to date on what is going on in a friend’s life, spending time together in person is what helps you create new memories. Even if it is for a short period of time, there is nothing like being in person with a friend and being able to talk for hours.
Meet in the middle geographically
In an effort to cut down on travel costs and to ensure that we are both putting in equal effort, something we try to do is meet in the middle geographically. It is exciting to pick a new location and a place we both have never been to before to explore something new together. Previously, my friends and I all met in Chicago. We came from California, Nevada, Ohio and Massachusetts. It was a trip I honestly will never forget!
Plan in advance
The thing I would suggest most is to plan ahead. When there is so much distance physically between friends it can be difficult to see each other spontaneously or with short notice. I usually try to plan about three months in advance for a trip and at least a week in advance for a Facetime call. This way you have ample time to schedule other obligations around the call or trip.
In short, being friends with someone who lives incredibly far can be difficult but not impossible. I hope these few tips help you foster long lasting friendships!