Everyone says college is what you make of it, it’s the best four years of your life, and that you grow the most during these years. I didn’t really listen to them when they gave me this advice as I just wanted to enjoy the last remaining months of my Senior year. However, as the spring semester of my freshman year comes to a close, I completely understand what everyone was saying. That being said, here are five things I learned as a college freshman.
Be open to everything and everyone
I’ve met some great friends from doing various activities. Not only that, I’ve met different kinds of people who have helped me grow as a person. Trying new things can’t hurt, and you might even find your passion while doing it!
Balance school work and social time
As a freshman, I found it very difficult to juggle completing homework and hanging out friends. Know your limits and use your time wisely! Time management is your number one friend. However, college isn’t just about school work or just about socialization, but it’s a mix of both! It’s important to have a healthy balance of both in your life, especially when you’re a college freshman and starting to figure things out.
Appreciate your parents and family
Most likely, your parents are paying for your education. It’s time to appreciate them and be thankful for everything they give you in order to succeed! Enjoy the quality time when you’re home, look forward to talking to them on the phone, and tell your mom how much you love her cooking. Who knows the next time you’ll eat a home cooked meal, and one bite of mom’s can brighten your day.
Surround yourself with people who only lift you higher
This is so cliche but it’s very true. If you surround yourself with people who are bad influences, your grades and self-esteem might plummet. However, by embracing people who have similar interests and who make you happy, you will see a noticeable difference day-to-day. Not only will you feel good about yourself but you will feel good when you hang out with them.
You will go through many different friend groups
This has been the number one thing I’ve learned as a freshman in college. I’ve gone through several different friends, dropped those who are bad influences and kept those who make me feel happy. There were times where I felt out of place with certain friends and felt bad that I wasn’t as friendly with them anymore. But, your friend circle will only keep expanding!