I just started talking to my ex again after almost a year. It felt nice to reconnect with him and reminiscence about past trips and things we used to do. The problem is that I think I am falling for him all over again even though I am with someone now and it is getting serious. I’m so in love with my current boyfriend that I would never want to hurt him as I’ve done to others in the past; he doesn’t deserve that. I’m meeting up with my ex in a week to see each other before we go off on Christmas break and I’m worried I might try to kiss him or worse he might feel the same way I feel about him. This thought of me and my ex back together has been stressing me for days and I don’t want to tell my boyfriend because he’ll worry but I don’t want to keep anything from him either. What should I do to resolve this?
-Alexis
A problem is always bound to harbor new issues with an ex reappearing. What I would say is to see your ex in the flesh and see if those feelings you are feeling for him are real or just an infatuation. You are thinking all in your head now and what you need to do is talk out how you feel to someone you trust to get their perspective on why you might feel this way. Maybe it’s just being with someone who knows you so well that entices you or you may be in a slump with your new boo. Either way, just let out how you are feeling to someone and then base your decision on that. Don’t go breaking two boy’s hearts when you only want one.
Good luck!
XoXo
Sabby!