Relationships as a young person are one of the most puzzling and all-consuming parts of our lives. And I’ve heard rumors that it doesn’t end here! It seems that they are both our reason for being and our reason for questioning our being. Especially when we view them under preset labels and expectations!
I am lucky enough to have one relationship in my life that I will never have to second guess— my sister. I feel that if there is one thing I know that I am, it is a sister! It is the most effortless yet most powerful role; I almost can’t fathom what I feel for my sister. I love her like I love myself.
Our connection is one thing that really feels beyond reason or explanation. And neither of us need to say anything to know and feel that. Because when we tangle our bodies together in cuddles, the bodies we have watched grow and tickled and punched and butterfly-kissed for so many years, it feels like everything is in place. Our hugs are a little haven of safety and understanding and belonging. We both love it more than anything!
The only thing about being away at college that is truly unbearable are the moments when my little sister needs that hug, and I can’t give it to her. That just hurts me in a way I can’t explain. I know that we’re fortunate to have FaceTime and texting, but there sometimes comes a point where those aren’t enough.
I guess time apart only makes the sister connection stronger, despite the occasional sting. I think that our cuddles at Christmastime will create an even more potent haven than before. And in the meantime, I’ll keep the hugs that I can still feel close to my heart. The sister connection can withstand any distance.
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