The first part of freshman year is the hardest. Living with a complete stranger can be a daunting thought and it’s okay to be scared. For those of us that are fortunate enough to have found both a roommate and a friend, here are a few lessons we learned:
1. Everyone argues – when two people are asked to cohabitate, conflict is natural. Remember that your roommate is a human being and work on figuring it out.
2. Understand differences – You come from different places.
3. Accept diversity – Don’t try and change yourself to be more like your roommate. Don’t try and change your roommate to be more like you.
4. Always be generous – Work together to make college easier. It’s new for both of you.
5. Never assume – everyone is fighting a battle. You can’t guess what your roommate is going through. Take time to talk.
6. Be a good support system – Sometimes you just need to vent about econ class. Remember to listen when she needs to.
7. Appreciate what you have – Not everyone grew up the same way.
8. Help each other grow – Hear each other’s plans, ideas, and dreams.
9. A dorm can be a home – Make your two semesters together count. Put up pictures on the walls. Decorate your home. Love each other. You’re a family.