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Growing Up is No Hogwarts: The Harsh Reality of Adulting

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Aanya Tulsyan Student Contributor, Ashoka University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Ashoka chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Edited by: Sanvi Rawat

Remember that bittersweet moment in Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, when Hagrid barges in with his iconic line: “Yer a wizard, Harry”? That was the dream. We all secretly waited for our Hogwarts letter, believing that maybe, just maybe, magic was real.

Fast forward to today, and instead of casting spells, we’re casting side-eyes at our bank balance. Adulthood isn’t exactly the whimsical adventure we imagined—it’s more like getting lost in the Forbidden Forest without a Marauder’s Map.

The Sorting Hat (of Life) is Kinda Unfair

As kids, we thought we’d grow up and know exactly what we wanted. Turns out, the Sorting Hat of adulthood doesn’t whisper career choices in our ears—it just kinda plops us into responsibilities and says, figure it out. Some of us are still waiting for a Wingardium Leviosa moment to lift our spirits (and our workload).

O.W.L.s vs. Tax Returns

Remember how stressed Hermione was about her O.W.L.s? Now, we’d trade those exams in a heartbeat for the horror of doing our own taxes. Balancing rent, groceries, and maybe a social life? Feels like we’re stuck in a never-ending Transfiguration class, except instead of turning teacups into tortoises, we’re just trying to transform our sleep schedule into something remotely functional.

Butterbeer is Expensive

Speaking of finances—why didn’t anyone warn us that the price of a decent coffee would rival a Gringotts vault heist? Gone are the days when a treat meant a Chocolate Frog; now, a splurge is adding oat milk to our latte. And let’s not even talk about student loans—they’re basically the Dementors of adulthood, slowly sucking out our souls (and savings).

Friendships Feel Like Vanishing Spells

Remember when you could just Accio your friends for a quick hangout? Now, syncing schedules is harder than defeating Voldemort. Between work, life, and the constant exhaustion, friendships require the dedication of Dumbledore’s Army. But when you do manage to meet? It’s pure magic.

The Real Magic Moments

Despite all the chaos, we do find magic in adulthood. It’s in the tiny victories—getting through the week without crying, finding the perfect playlist for your mood, or having a deep, late-night convo that reminds you you’re not alone. It’s in the independence, the unexpected adventures, and the quiet moments of self-discovery.

Sure, growing up isn’t Hogwarts. But maybe, just maybe, there’s still a little bit of magic left in the real world. We just have to look for it.

So, until further notice… we’re all just waiting for our letter. ✨

Aanya is a freshman at Ashoka University with a long-standing passion for writing. As her school’s newsletter editor, she thrived on brainstorming creative ideas, editing with precision, and bringing fresh content to life. Now at Her Campus, she’s excited to explore new horizons with the Ashoka Chapter.

Beyond academics, Aanya has a serious love for chocolate desserts and an even deeper passion for binge-watching movies. She also holds strong opinions about financial literacy (for), ketchup as an edible product (against), and ice-cream in winters (for). You’ll often find her diving into quirky conversations or exploring new interests on campus.