Elliott Snay
Hometown: Colombus, OH
Year: Freshman
Major: Business
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1. If a girl was hooking up with a guy first semester should she continue it during second semester?
Elliott: It honestly depends on how serious it was first semester. If the girl missed them that much during break and was looking forward to getting back with them then yes, continue. If it was kind of just a fling, then I don’t see the problem with exploring new options.
2. Is it up to the girl to pursue the guy or should she let him come to her first?
Elliott: Well every guy loves chasing girls, but if the guy doesn’t feel wanted from the beginning then he’ll get up and move on pretty quickly. She needs to show interest in him or it won’t work out.
3. Should the girl do anything if it looks like he has already moved on or just let it go without talking to him about it?
Elliott: Looks are deceiving. A lot of times a guy can be doing that to make the girl jealous. If there was something there the semester before, it can’t hurt to at least try to get it back.
4. Will the guy become annoyed if she tries to talk about it?
Elliott: He’ll only be annoyed if the girl pushes it once he’s told her its over. If she knows the guy fell for her, then it’s worth pursuing.
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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Arizona chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.