There are some who love nothing more than parties, meeting new people or constantly being with their friends. These people are commonly labeled extroverts; however, it’s not to say introverts can’t do these things — they just prefer not to (at least, not all the time). Rather than thriving on interactions with other people, we simply find it to be draining. Don’t take it personally, though. Also, remember the following if you’re BFFs with an introvert:
1. We’re not all shy
Just like being outgoing doesn’t equate to being an extrovert, being shy doesn’t equate to being an introvert.
2. Please respect our personal space
Whether it’s the literal space between us, or a space like our bedroom — know our limits and respect them.
3. We hate being called “anti-social”
It’s not that we’re anti-social, we just value our alone time.
4. We don’t just sit at home
Nope; we just love doing things alone — like shopping, going to dinner, etc.
5. We tend to over-analyze things
Since we’re deep thinkers, we may over-analyze certain situations.
6. Listening is our fortè
While we may not be particularly equipped to help you with your problems, we’re always down to listen.
7. Don’t call us
Texting is definitely more likely to get you a reply.
8. We’re not that intimidating
We may look unapproachable, but we aren’t.
9. People-watching is our favorite
Sitting back and observing is fun for us.
10. Meaningful conversations are important for us
Small talk isn’t really our thing — we prefer deep conversations.
11. We aren’t lonely
Alone does not equal lonely.
12. Surprises aren’t our thing
Surprising an introvert will most likely be a disaster.
13. It may take us a while to open up
Taking things slow is important for us.
14. Don’t be afraid to cancel plans with us
We won’t mind at all (most of the time).
15. We love putting the attention on you
Since being the center of attention isn’t a priority of ours, we’re happy to let you shine instead.