The world of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives is in full chaos mode right now, with the drama unfolding every minute, it seems. And just when you thought Jordan couldnāt get more public about his feelings towards his ex, Jessi Draper, a fan posted a Cameo video he made to TikTok that is essentially fully about Jessi.
In the Cameo video, which at first appears to be Jordan congratulating the fan recipient on their upcoming marriage, quickly turns into a venting session about how he feels about ex-wife. He mentions that Jessi is “acting like a complete psycho, manic person, and it’s really sad to see her act that way.” He also goes further into detail on her recent dating scandals, and seeing her “kiss her friends’ ex-husbands and talk to her affair partner, but hey, this isn’t about me right now.” Jordan then addresses the recipient once more, saying how he knows theyāre a big fan of the show, but again twists the narrative and insinuates that a lot of the show is scripted āto make DadTok look bad,ā possibly referring to his infamous speech from Season 4 going viral and receiving negative attention. Jordan leaves the fan with one last bit of advice, to “only turn toward your partner” and make them your No. 1 priority ā but again reverts the topic back to himself, expressing that āfameā got to Jessiās head.Ā Her Campus reached out to Jessi’s team for comment on the Cameo video but didn’t hear back by the time of publication.
The comments section of the Cameo video did not disappoint. Jessi herself commented to the TikTok user, “I hope you can get your money back [on the Cameo].” Mayci also chimed in, writing, “Is this AI?! No way this is real š.” To make matters even more interesting, Chase wrote, āBrutal watch, per usual.ā
One TikTok user also wrote, āStop why is he treating this like a video diary,ā and another said, ā’This isnāt about me rnā *continues to make it about him.*” The TikTok user who uploaded the Cameo, Nina Martinsen, made a joke about it herself, posting in the comments, āHe did wanna listen to my music though, maybe I should send him my Spotify link?āĀ
For context, Jordan Ngatikaura and Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Jessi Draper recently filed for divorce in March 2026, six years after they got married in 2020. Tensions first started brewing after the Season 2 finale revelation that Jessi and Vanderpump Villa star Marciano Brunette were having an emotional affair during her and Jordanās 90-day separation, but maintained they were working on their relationship despite the turmoil.
With news of their divorce coming just after the Season 4 release of the show, Draper went on Alex Cooperās Call Her Daddy podcast to clear up some of the rumors and backlash surrounding their marriage. Jessi claimed that Jordan filed for divorce without her knowledge. But Jessi isnāt exactly innocent in the demise of their relationship. Not only has she been spotted again with Marciano, most recently on his shoulders at a LANY concert, but just after the podcast episode dropped, claims of Jessi kissing Chase, co-star Mirandaās ex-husband, also came to the surface. Despite everyone rallying behind Jessi and her separation from her husband, fans are speculating and questioning her true intentions as a friend to Miranda. Jessi did send Miranda apology flowers, though.
With cameras being down for so long and filming for Season 5 just resuming, fans are still unsure if MomTok or DadTok will survive this one. Friendships are definitely being tested, relationships are breaking down, and loyalties being questioned. But it wouldnāt be The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives without a little drama, right?