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How to Find THE ONE (Find the right man!)

So I just got a hilarious email about this book called Find the Right Man for You. The email came with a list of the top-10 ways for you to find the one! I couldn’t help but share this with all of you. Enjoy!

Ten Ways for Women to Find the Right Man

1. Get Out

Unless a woman is searching online, she’s not going to find a partner at home. How many men have you met in the last month? Put yourself in situations where you are going to meet many more men.

2. You Talk First

Don’t wait for men to talk to you. You talk first! Talk to three new, interesting men a day. Stay alert to chance meetings.

3. Take a Hard Look at Your Requirements

Look for character and what’s going to make you happier in the long run. Don’t get hung up on things like age or height.

4. Improve Your Appearance

Dress up more. You’ve got a lot of competition. Doesn’t what a man looks like make a difference to you? It does to men too.

Lose weight if you have to, for your health, and so the man who loves you will be likely to have you longer. Women who get their weight into a more acceptable range attract more men.

5. Move Ahead — Don’t Stay Stuck

Don’t let a bad divorce experience keep you mired in sadness. You still have a whole lot of living to do, no matter how old you are.

6. Use Online Dating

Don’t walk when you can run. You’re holding yourself back. Where else can you scope out 100-200 men in an hour?

7. Use Dynamite Photos and Write a Captivating Personal Statement

Excellent photos are very important. It’s what stops traffic. Write a strong personal statement. Answer questionnaires thoroughly. Open up your heart. You will touch the hearts of the right men.

8. Be Open to Moving If You Can

Being willing to go where a man is can increase potential candidates. Any flexibility helps, even if it’s only to a different part of your state.

9. Be Patient and Be Happy With or Without a Man

It can take time to find the right man – much longer if you don’t work at it consistently. In the meantime, do what you enjoy and be grateful. You might meet the man you were looking for just living your everyday, happy life.

10. Believe

It’s never too late to find love. I’ve heard women say they will never meet anyone. If you think like that, you’re going to be right. A woman married who was ninety-two. She was with her husband for four years. There is always time – if you keep hope alive and do what needs to be done.

Detailed contents: http://www.FindingTheRightManForYou.com


As President and Co-Founder of Her Campus Media, Windsor is in charge of all revenue and monetization strategies. Under her watch, Her Campus has done state of the art college marketing programs for clients including Under Armour, Aussie Haircare, Neutrogena, Coke with Coffee, Bed Bath & Beyond, Hallmark, VS Pink, Ralph Lauren Fragrances, H&R Block, The Home Depot, WeWork, Grubhub and more.  Windsor is a 2010 honors graduate of Harvard College. She has also been named to Forbes 30 Under 30, BusinessWeek's 25 Under 25 Best Young Entrepreneurs, Inc. magazine's 30 Under 30 Coolest Young Entrepreneurs, Glamour magazine's 20 Amazing Young Women, and The Boston Globe's 25 Most Stylish Bostonians. She lives in Atlanta, GA with her husband and two daughters. Follow Windsor on Instagram: @windsorwestern

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