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You Don’t Need a Boyfriend To Feel Good About Yourself

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Ajibike Lapite Student Contributor, Princeton
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Princeton chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

You know girls like Taylor Swift, who are always jumping from guy to guy. These girls have problems, but that’s for another post. Let’s talk about the girls who yearn to have T-Swift’s repertoire of failed relationships. For the women who desire a boyfriend to the extent that self-hatred is involved, this video is for you.

Favorite lines: “Nobody asked for your opinion. Nobody asked you to be born.”
Note, there is definitely strong language involved, but it definitely gets the point across. Enjoy collegiettes™!


And of course a gratuitous Taylor Swift music video. I can’t help but love this one, maybe it’s the preppy attire and ridiculous swirling around in a library–never okay.

Ajibike Lapite is a member of Princeton University’s Class of 2014. When not studying, Ajibike tutors at the Young Scholar’s Institute in Trenton, NJ; serves as the President  of the Princeton Premedical Society; is the Editor-in-Chief of Her Campus Princeton; currently holds the title of Most Stylish Undergraduate (from Stylitics). Ajibike is a  molecular biology major with a certificate in global health & policy. She enjoys consumption of vanilla ice cream and sweet tea, watching games of criquet, exploring libraries, lusting after Blair Waldorf’s wardrobe, watching far too much television, editing her novel, staying watch at the mailbox, playing tennis and golf in imitation of the pros, hanging out with the best friends she’s ever had, baking cookies that aren’t always awesome, being Novak Djokovic’s fan girl, and sleeping—whenever and wherever she can.