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Lessons from Lizzie McGuire

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Ajibike Lapite Student Contributor, Princeton
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Princeton chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the television of now: Gossip Girl, 90210, Parenthood, Glee, and my newest obsession, Smash–but I can’t help but miss the television shows of my childhood. While I watched Lizzie tormet over the expensive jeans fad or even her boy drama, I learned a lot of life lessons from the clumsy yet fantastic Lizzie McGuire.

{1} “You rock, don’t ever change!”
In Lizzie’s school, almost everyone signed yearbooks with the above quote, but I think the quote is more than a clichĂ©, but a mantra we should have. We should be telling ourselves this, collegiettes™. Especially when we think that we are anything but awesome.

{2} You Need Guy Friends to Balance out the Girl Friends
Girls, we all know this: we can sometimes be crazy and all it takes is a snarky comment and passive-aggression, for a girl fight to take flight. We need to have the guy friends to balance out our girl drama; seriously, what would Lizzie have been without both Miranda and Gordo?

{3} Friendships Come and Go
As a sophomore, this lesson seems more pertinent in my life than I expected it would before coming to Princeton. I expected the next time I would experience serious distance with most of my friends would be graduation (2014!) but I have come to find that my friends who aren’t in my classes, do not live in my building, or take part in the same extra-curriculars have all but disappered from my life. From Lizzie’s experiences (especially with Kate, her ex-best friend), we see that ended  relationships (no matter the form) should be appreciated for what they were once before.

{4} Keep an Open Mind
Sure, I may have been rooting for Gordo throughout the series, but I was more than excited when Gordo and Lizzie tumbled into a relationship in Rome. It is easy to write off your male friends and not consider them as potential partners, but I think we often write off individuals that we imagine to be ideal. I’m not suggesting that each and every one of us should convert a platonic relationship into a romantic relationships, but we should be careful to keep an open mind, especially in the matters of love.

Ajibike Lapite is a member of Princeton University’s Class of 2014. When not studying, Ajibike tutors at the Young Scholar’s Institute in Trenton, NJ; serves as the President  of the Princeton Premedical Society; is the Editor-in-Chief of Her Campus Princeton; currently holds the title of Most Stylish Undergraduate (from Stylitics). Ajibike is a  molecular biology major with a certificate in global health & policy. She enjoys consumption of vanilla ice cream and sweet tea, watching games of criquet, exploring libraries, lusting after Blair Waldorf’s wardrobe, watching far too much television, editing her novel, staying watch at the mailbox, playing tennis and golf in imitation of the pros, hanging out with the best friends she’s ever had, baking cookies that aren’t always awesome, being Novak Djokovic’s fan girl, and sleeping—whenever and wherever she can.