Entering college for the first time can be a scary thing. New people, new atmosphere, new area–it can be a frightening place. But can you imagine doing it all over again? Transferring colleges is like becoming a freshman once more. New people—new atmosphere—new campus…
Transferring from IUP to Queens College was one of the scariest decisions I’ve ever made. Going from a small town college to a large city college can be a terrifying experience.
When I first stepped on campus, I felt like a fish out of water. I was completely out of my comfort zone, but strangely…I liked it. I was pushing myself to greater heights, which made me a stronger person. After a full week of school, I love my college! I’m glad I transferred, and certain things helped me adjust faster.
1. Smile
Just like the doctor said, it takes more muscles to frown than to smile. So smile! The last thing you may want to do is just that, but it may actually help you. It can help you feel better–and it lets people know you’re friendly, making it easier to meet people. No one wants to talk to Mr. or Mrs. Frowny Sad Face. You might even draw the attention of a cute guy or girl.
2. Get Lost
People are afraid to get lost. My first day of classes, I got lost three times. And when I was lost, of course it rained—heavily. When I finally found my way, I resembled a wet dog. Of course I was upset at the time, but now I just laugh about it. Getting lost sometimes helps you become familiar with your surroundings quicker. Just after a week, I know the whole campus.
3. Don’t be afraid to ask
If you do really get lost, and can’t find your way around, ASK SOMEONE. Lots of people are afraid to ask—either out of pride or thinking they might look stupid or dumb for asking for directions. But you have to learn to open your mouth. The average person will be nice, and help you. If not, ask someone else. Learning to read people can help a lot. Don’t ask someone who looks like they’re mad or angry or not in a good mood. Plus if you’re a lady—most guys won’t even mind helping you. When I got lost one time, this guy actually walked me to class, and his class was in the opposite direction.
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4. Know your Campus Bookstore
Campus bookstores are notorious for being expensive, but if you’re in a big city and don’t know your way around yet, the bookstore can be a godsend. They usually sell all those last minute things you might need. Like pens, papers, mouse, printer, bookshelves…etc. It can really come in handy when you can’t get to a regular store.
5. Have a Positive Outlook
Be positive! You’re in a big city (or just someplace new), where you have almost anything at your disposal. Do anything you want. If you don’t have a positive outlook, you won’t enjoy it. If you’re negative—(you don’t like the people or the transportation, blah blah blah)—or if you keep complaining, you won’t enjoy yourself and you probably won’t have a go
od time or make any friends. No one wants a sourpuss around, would you?
6. Get to know your roommates(if you have any)
Lots of people live alone in big cities, but sometimes you do have roommates. I live in a dorm on campus, and two of my suitemates grew up in NYC. They showed me around, and taught me about where to and not to go and the best ways to get there. Roommates can be very helpful if you’re on good terms with them. They can be your friend and tour guide.
7. Explore
You’re in a new place, explore it! Learn how to take public transportation or if you have money you can take taxis. Go to all the major landmarks and be sure to take pictures. Exploring can be fun, and you can learn a lot. I know it may be scary, but it’ll be worth it in the end. Exploring is how you really appreciate where you live.
Transferring can be difficult, especially when it’s from a small town college like IUP to a large city college like NYU or Queens College. But if you follow these tips, I promise you that your transition will be easier no matter where you are! Remember: even if you try all these things, you still might not like the transition—and that’s normal. Some people just prefer the country or small town feel, but if you do want to take a risk and try big city colleges don’t be afraid. Don’t let fear stop you. If you give it a chance, you could really enjoy yourself, and it could be the best decision you ever made.
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