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Should You Ask Your Crush Out For Valentine’s Day?

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Gloria Charles-Pierre Student Contributor, University of Ottawa
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at U Ottawa chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Are you tired of being a single lady for Valentine’s Day and the guy you like can’t get the picture that you’re into him?  We are in 2014… a girl should totally be able to ask her crush out. For some girls, it’s no big deal to go after what they want. However, some girls, will not ask a guy out unless they are sure that he absolutely likes them too. So, today I want to help you make your decision. After reading this list, you should be able to decide whether or not to ask out your crush.

Does he make you happy when you are feeling down? Ask him out

Does he still not know your name? Don’t ask him out

Does he make you laugh until you cry? Ask him out

Does he always talk about himself? Don’t ask him out

Does he listen when you are gossiping about your celebrity crushes? Ask him out

Does he take hours to text you back? Don’t ask him out

Does he text you good morning and good night every day? Ask him out

Does he have a different girl coming out of his apartment every week? Don’t ask him out

Does he always dress nice to see you? Ask him out

Does he never like any of your social media posts? Don’t ask him out

Does he remember your birthday? Ask him out

Does he talk to you about his dreams and future plans? Ask him out

Does he never want to be seen with you in public? Don’t ask him out

Does he know your exact Starbucks order? Ask him out

Does he make fun of you in front of his friends? Don’t ask him out

Does he come pick you up across town when you finish work late? Ask him out

Does he only talk to you when he needs something? Don’t ask him

Does he go shopping with you without complaining? Ask him out

Does he make you pay when he takes you somewhere? Don’t ask him out

Does he often surprise you for no reason? Ask him out

Does he think he is the center of the universe? Don’t ask him out

Does he forget plans you made or cancel last minute on you? Don’t ask him out

Does he watch chick flicks with you and actually like them? Ask him out

Does he act like a fourteen year old? Don’t ask him out

Does he often take you to his place to spend time with his family? Ask him out

Does he treat you like one of the boys? Don’t ask him out

Does he respect you for the lady you are? Ask him out

With all that said, do you think you will ask him or not? You still have a little bit more time to think about it. Whatever you do, make sure to spend Valentine’s Day with the people that love you most!

 

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Gloria Charles-Pierre is Her Campus uOttawa Alumni. She was one of our writers for four years and the French editor for two years. Gloria graduated from the University of Ottawa with a degree in Arts specialized in French Lierature and two certificates in LSQ (Langue des Signes Québécoise). Now, she is in Teachers College and loving it. Gloria spends her time doing kick-boxing and working on her personnal writing project while growing in her faith. She hopes to travel more, and to continue her studies with a Masters in Education and also continue working in editing.