If there’s one thing we know about Uni lads, it’s their inability to commit and their love for the classic “I’m just not that into you” story. Sadly, it’s not a behaviour that’s limited to the under 21s. Boys in general really struggle sometimes with the idea of settling down and staying with one person for the foreseeable future. Then along came Matthew Hussey…
The British-born hottie began his career as a life coach, meeting a few clients in London coffee shops. He is now one of the world’s leading relationship experts, coaching tens of thousands of clients in packed conference rooms across both the UK and the USA. He has lectured at Oxford University and his private clients have included directors of major companies, royalty and celebrities such as Christina Aguilera. Eva Longoria is also a fan, claiming: “Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world. His incredible understanding of love and relationships make him the absolute best love guru! This is a must have for anyone looking for love.”
Hussey has impressed female celebrities, including Eva Longoria and Christina Aguilera!
As his fame grew, more women approached Hussey with relationship troubles, leading him to found GetTheGuy, a company with an exclusive focus on relationships. The success of this now international brand established Hussey as the leading expert in the field of human attraction. He now communicates with millions of women worldwide through his online programmes, NYT bestselling book, live events, and YouTube broadcasts.
His message has reached over 10 million women in the last five years, and though his techniques might not be to everyone’s tastes, it’s certainly interesting to take a look at one of his videos- especially if you’re feeling some romantic confusion!
If you’ve watched the video, then you can probably already see that the guy talks a lot of sense. We’ve downloaded his texting crash course to share with you here so that you can have some blueprint messages that he claims are guaranteed to make your dream guy eager to spend time with you!
The idea of trouble implies danger and unpredictability that really excites guys and encourages them to take the next step to find out exactly what might happen.
The concept of the bath provides him with an exciting image without being overtly sexual, ideal for sparking his interest. You keep it casual while making him think about you.
Men are very visual creatures and this plays on that to your advantage, giving him the opportunity to respond with something flirtatious.
This puts the ball in his court; you’re not asking him to be there. You’re making him feel desired whilst creating mystery, as you haven’t said what you’re doing.
Some guys get very sexual too quickly. The important thing is to not give in to him, or you’ll just be like every other girl. This is an excellent way to put the brakes on sexually while still showing him desire and not breaking his ego. You’re not saying no, you’re essentially saying “not yet”.
These are just some of our favourites, but if you’d like to access the complete guide free there are instructions on Hussey’s website: www.gettheguy.co.uk. You can also check out some more of his videos on YouTube, from how to dress on your first date, to how to get the player to commit. (I admit that I have put some of his methods into practice and have managed to land a great guy that I’ve been with for months; it’s worth a watch!)
Happy browsing!
Sources:
http://www.kpopstarz.com/articles/121636/20141007/eva-longoria-boyfriend.htm
http://i.huffpost.com/gen/1305474/thumbs/o-CHRISTINA-AGUILERA-facebook.jpg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLoFQLGPgik
http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/site/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/9-texts-matt_hussey.pdf
Edited by Nicole Jones