Find yourself worrying about your friends, taking care of them, and reminding them to eat their fruits and veggies? You might be the mom of your group. But don’t go making an appointment for a stylish long bob and start yelling at soccer coaches yet–here are the 11 signs you definitely are the mom of your friend group:
1. You’re constantly checking your watch/phone clock to make sure you are all on time.
“Okay, the guy SAID the party starts at 11 p.m., but let’s get there at 10:45 just to be sure. Should we bring a housewarming gift?”
2. You’re always reminding them to wear a sweater, eat some food and pack a granola bar before they leave.
Because whether we like it or not, we always regret when we don’t wear a sweater. Mom IS always right, after all.
3. You remind them about their homework and get on their case when they procrastinate.
Nobody likes an all-nighter–but if that happens, you’ll probably be there cheering them on and making them a huge pot of coffee.
4. When you all go out, you’re the designated walker/driver–and you’re okay with it.
You’d rather be sure your babies (friends) get home okay than get trashed yourself.
5. You’re the first person they introduce to their significant other.
Your approval could make or break the relationship–don’t like them? They’re outta here. Like them? They’re in for life.
6. You’re always prepared with an extra SOMETHING.
Cough drop? Got it. Cardigan? No problem. Lipstick? Always.
8. You’re their go-to when they’re sick/hungover/heartbroken.
They know you’ll be there in a heartbeat with some soup, Advil or ice cream–whatever the situation calls for.
9. You’re the first person they talk to when they need advice.
Like it or not, they know you’ll be there with some loving, Danny Tanner-esque advice for whatever problem they’re having.
10. When you don’t go out with them, you wait up to make sure they get home safe.
You’d rather stay up ’til 3 a.m. until you get that “home” text than go to sleep–or just track their phone. Bless Find My Friends, amirite ladies?
11. You’re front-row at all of their concerts, plays, games, recitals and shows.
Usually with flowers, a poster and t-shirt proclaiming you’re their #1 fan–because you are.