The holidays are about spending it with the ones you love. Eventually, that could mean spending it at your boyfriend’s. When that time comes, don’t sweat it! The intimidation factor is just a facade. Below are a few ways to survive Christmas at your BF’s.
Embrace the awkward moments!
Awkward moments are bound to break out, especially when you are spending it with half of his family. Never show you’re uncomfortable and always stand with confidence. The more you look comfortable around his family, the more they will open up and make you feel like family!
Just because they are his grandparents, doesn’t mean they can’t hear!
Meeting the parents can be a challenge, but meeting the grandparents can be even more challenging. Do not assume that they cannot hear. Trying to yell a sentence in their ear when they can clearly hear you normally is embarrassing. Do not be that person. If there is any doubt at all, you are better off repeating yourself than yelling it for the rest of the world to hear.
Eat!
Holidays are made for eating. Do not be the girl that is too shy to eat. Eat how you normally would at your own home, whether that is a lot or a little. Don’t be self-conscious about your eating habits. Everyone is there having a good time, so you should too.
Avoid food fights!
This may not seem like a common occurrence, but trust me it does happen. I’ve had a green bean “accidentally” thrown at me once before. Just remember it is in good fun, but if you can avoid it, then do that. A trip to the bathroom or using your boyfriend as a human shield also works.
Remember that no matter where you are this holiday, enjoy and have a happy new year!