Happy Birthday to me! I turned 19 this past weekend. As I reflect on this past year, I thought I’d share 18 things I learned during my 18th year.
- Take advantage of opportunities
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Even if I’m hesitant or nervous to go for something, it never hurts to try and seize the opportunity.
- How lucky I am to go to college
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Especially somewhere like UB, there’s an immense amount of opportunities, experiences, and culture here.
- It’s okay to walk away
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I learned that walking away isn’t always the same as “giving up,” especially if it’s for the sake of putting my overall health first.
- It’s okay to keep some things to yourself
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Sometimes the things you keep to yourself help you grow the most. I know more of what ideas, thoughts, and feelings to share, and those to figure out for myself. Outside opinions can complicate what could’ve been simple.
- Pineapple pizza is actually delicious
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Had it for the first time a couple of months ago, I’ve truly been missing out.
- If it doesn’t make you happy, it’s not worth it
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It could be anything; friends, relationships, a job. Happiness is everything.
- Hard work goes a long way
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It’s almost always noticed and appreciated by others.
- Do the hard things first
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It’s much easier to do the hard homework or chores first. You have the most energy for it physically and mentally.
- Stop being so apologetic
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I’m learning to stop saying sorry for how I feel, my feelings are just as valid as everyone else.
- How to save money
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I’ve learned to budget my money and make smart purchases. Although, I’m still not perfect.
- You don’t need the approval of others
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I’m really bad at making decisions, so I always run to someone when I need help deciding on something. I’m learning to trust myself more and make decisions alone.
- How to enjoy coffee on its own
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I’ve grown to like coffee with just milk, a big milestone!
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To be conscious of what I eat, but not too conscious
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I’ve learned to make healthy decisions and to be more conscious of what I’m eating. However, I also learned to not overly obsessed about it, life is too short!
- How to be alone
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I’ve learned to be comfortable with spending time by myself whether it be at the library, working out or eating alone.
- How wonderful home is
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Coming back home from college, I saw where I lived through a different perspective and appreciated the little things about home that I never noticed before.
- I have the best friends and family
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I’m very lucky to have friends who care about me and love me in college and I’m lucky to be able to come home to a loving family.
- Communication is key
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In all relationships, friendships, and life in general.
- To let go and have ~fun~
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Life is short!!! These years should be dedicated to adventures, spending time with friends and doing what I love.
Here’s to 19!