You may be wondering whether I am going through a break-up or some sort of midlife crisis at the age of nineteen for me to want to do this. I mean, why else would I want to shave my head, right? Well not necessarily. I’m sure most people who know me would probably think that this is a random thought and that I will change my mind, but I’ve actually always wanted to do this. Let me explain:Â
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There have been many things in my life that I’ve always wanted to do, but I felt like I couldn’t. I worried about what other people would think of me and how that would affect those who are close to me. I felt like I had an image to uphold of being this perfect person and that I had to follow these set rules. But after leaving home for college I realized that this life is my own and I would hate to look back on it and regret not doing something that I wanted to do because of fear.Â
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Wearing the clothes that I like. This seems ridiculous now but a few years ago I wore clothes that were very in tune with those around me. Even though I wanted to step out of that mold, I didn’t want to deal with the repercussions of the potential judgment. For as long as I could remember I have always loved overalls, but I never wore them because I wouldn’t fit in with the crowd. Last spring I bought my first pair and it was the best feeling in the world to wear something that I finally felt like myself in.Â
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Tattoos. I got my first tattoo when I was sixteen years old. It was something that I had planned on getting for years and I had to get approval from everyone I knew before I got it. But last summer I asked myself why I always had to have a plan when life rarely sticks to it. So on a whim, I went in and got a tattoo that meant a lot to me at the time. Would I recommend that for everyone? Nope. But it was again something that was spontaneous and made me feel alive.Â
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And now to the part you and I have all been waiting for, *drumroll please*, shaving my head. I remember growing up and always wanting to have fun hair. But I never felt like I was allowed to do so because you’re supposed to go to school and get a job and there’s no room for that. Now I see that that’s not true. I am young and not tied down to anything at the moment. So, why don’t I do something that I’ve always wanted to do? I want to have funky hair with different colors and weird cuts. Plus the best part is, hair grows back (even if it takes forever).Â
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My hope is that this article sparked something in you to go out and do things that you’ve always wanted to do. Whether that be travel the world in a van, go skydiving, or maybe shave your head. Either way go out and live life, it’s yours for the taking!