Islamophobia continues to affect Muslim communities, and for Muslim women, it can be particularly disturbing.
I wear the hijab. I have never doubted its purpose nor underestimated its value. I wasn’t, however, naive about the many challenges women in my generation face. Social media, beauty standards, societal pressure and, of course, Islamophobia have all reminded me that I’m not the trend.
I once heard that your values are not considered unless they’re tested. So, when my values were tested, I knew the “trend” meant nothing and that true power comes from within. When my values were tested, I embraced them more and held them with greater pride.
I’ve often been the only visibly Muslim student in my classes, and I’ve often been asked how that feels. It’s a familiar question, one I find myself asking as I remind myself of my why.
I wear the hijab because it’s a command in my religion. I’d rather please my Creator than the creation, I tell myself.
There’s a particular sense of confidence that comes from knowing that your worth isn’t determined by how much of yourself you choose to reveal or by how others perceive you.
Freedom is a subjective term, and people define it differently. To me, and to many Muslim women, freedom means setting ourselves free from trends and finding honour in our decisions.
But having the freedom to make that choice doesn’t mean everyone will respect it.
Earlier this week, a woman wearing a hijab was harassed by a man who told her that Muslims did not belong in Canada, according to CBC News.
There’s a saying that goes, “One is an enemy of what they’re ignorant of.” Sometimes, what we don’t understand is what we are quickest to judge. Taking the time to learn about Islam, Muslims and the hijab can be the first step towards replacing misconceptions with understanding.
Curious questions have never bothered me. I appreciate questions and admire curiosity, particularly in those who seek answers and are willing to learn. Awareness is key, and respect is essential.