To incoming freshmen, those reflecting on their freshman year of college, or any student looking for advice on change, this letter is for you.
Dear Maddy,
You did it! You got into college…now your journey to adulthood is really beginning. As a current sophomore there are many lessons I would like to share with you now.
First things first, always eat before class. If you get stuck taking an 8 AM, wake up at an early enough time to ensure there is enough time to grab breakfast. Whether it’s PJs coffee with a bagel, dining hall eggs, or oatmeal in your room, eating before class will fuel your brain and you will not be counting down the seconds to leave class and rush to the dining hall. How are you supposed to focus on the classwork when all you want is some breakfast to settle your growling stomach?
Next, go out with everyone. When you get to orientation, it may seem like people came in with a friend group already. You will start questioning why everyone is making friends quicker than you. Ignore those thoughts and remember you are all in the same boat. You are all freshmen and it is everyone’s first time in college. Don’t judge people by their social media, their clothes, or first impressions—include everyone and have fun going out, you are only a freshman once.
Study for your AP exams. Registering for classes is stressful for everyone, but you can give yourself an advantage by coming into college with credits already satisfied. Maybe look at required courses for your intended major; if you see psychology must be taken and you are a current senior in high school enrolled in AP Psych, take that as an opportunity to be one step ahead.
It’s okay to feel alone. If anyone says they are loving their first week of college…chances, are they are bluffing. The feeling of freedom wears off soon and next thing you know, you are calling your mom three times a day crying about how you miss your childhood bedroom. If you are constantly comparing your college life to high school, you are never able to fully appreciate the opportunities ahead. High school is over; make the most of your college experience.
Lastly, remember that you are only a freshman once. Go to the dining hall with your friends, go to frat parties, find your study space, maximize your time on campus. There will be ups and downs. You will cry about missing your family, your home friends, your significant other—but while you are feeling those emotions, keep in mind that someday you will look back and miss it.
Love,
Maddy
