December has always felt like a reflective month, a time when the year’s events come into sharper focus. This December, however, the reflections are time to acknowledge the changes, the highs and lows, and the people who have shaped my journey and growth this past year.
The most significant change has undoubtedly been starting college. Moving away from home and diving into a completely new environment was both exhilarating and intimidating. The “ups” have been incredible. I’ve met some amazing people who I can genuinely call my new best friends. We’ve done late-night drives, shared late-night talks, and started creating memories that I know will last a lifetime. This new lifestyle has opened my eyes to different perspectives and possibilities, and I feel like I’m growing in ways I never imagined.
However, this year hasn’t been without its challenges. One of my biggest “downs” was a difficult breakup. Navigating heartbreak in the midst of summer, while trying to prepare for college, was incredibly tough. It felt like everything was changing at once, and it was hard to keep my head above water. But, as time passed, I learned to lean on my friends and family for support, and slowly, I started to heal. And now, I feel better than ever because I know that it shaped me into who I am today.
Another unexpected challenge was the gradual drifting apart from some friends back home. As I embraced my new college life, our paths split. It’s a bittersweet realization that not all friendships are meant to last forever. While it’s sad to see those connections fade, I’m also grateful for the memories we shared and the role they played in my life. Some people are meant to stay for a chapter, whereas others are meant to stay for the whole story, and that’s okay.
This December, I’m taking the time to appreciate the people who have stayed in my life, both old and new. The friends who have made an effort to stay connected despite the distance, and the new friends who have become my support system here at college. These are the people who have seen me through ups and downs, who have celebrated my successes and comforted me at my lows.
As the year comes to a close, I’m filled with a mix of emotions. Sadness for what’s been lost, gratitude for what’s been gained, and hope for what this coming year will bring. December is a reminder that change is inevitable, and while it can be painful, it also creates space for new beginnings. I’m entering the new year with a renewed sense of self, a deeper appreciation for the people in my life, and a willingness to embrace whatever comes my way.