1. Thanksgiving Goes Global
While most families stick to turkey and stuffing, we mix it up with dishes from different countries each year. One Thanksgiving might be Italian; the next, Thai. It’s unpredictable, but it keeps the table and the photos interesting. We can thank my stepdad for that idea, he says turkey twice so close together is boring.
2. Christmas Decor Must Wait Its Turn
I am a firm believer that Christmas decor shouldn’t invade November. Fall deserves its moment. So, the day after Thanksgiving is when the Christmas music starts, the tree comes out, and my sisters and I still take turns putting the angel on top.
3. Christmas Eve Gifts, Christmas Morning Magic
We open presents from our extended family on Christmas Eve, a tradition that feels like a warm-up for the main event. Christmas morning is just for me, my mom, and my sisters, quiet, cozy, and chaotic in the best way.
4. Wrapping Gifts With My Mom
For years, my mom and I have tackled the wrapping together. We pick out the gifts, match the paper and ribbons, and somehow make a mess every single time. It’s one of the rare moments during the season when we actually slow down. I don’t get to see my mom as much nowadays, so I look forward to these moments every year.
5. Game Night Takes Over Christmas Eve
Once the gifts are opened, the competition begins. Our Christmas Eve game night always features the infamous plastic-wrap ball game filled with funny prizes. My aunt found it online one year ago, and we’ve played it among many other games since. It’s loud, chaotic, and, honestly, the highlight of the night.
6. Black-Eyed Peas for New Year’s Luck
According to family rule (aka my mom tells us so), the new year cannot begin until we’ve eaten our black-eyed peas. No matter how you feel about them, they’re nonnegotiable—because good luck is serious business.
These traditions may not make sense to anyone outside our family, but that’s exactly what makes them special. They’re the small rituals, the inside jokes, and the perfectly imperfect moments that turn the holiday season into something uniquely ours. And honestly, those are the traditions worth keeping.
Happy Holidays from me to you!