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Tired of Mixed Signals?! Sabby To The Rescue

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Buff State chapter.



There is this boy I liked for a long time, the only problem is that I don’t he likes me back. Or at least I don’t think he does. He’s so confusing!  He gives me these cold moments where he would ignore me for days at a time. Then he will give these moments where he would come out of his way to hug me up like everything is all good. We kissed a few times but nothing further than that. We hang out on campus from time to time but he has never asked me out on a date. I just want him to take me to the Burchfield! Or hell even to Burger King! I would just be fine with that as a date! What should I do?
-Melissa
 

Hey Melissa

Give up on it. If he hasn’t asked you out yet, there is no point hanging around waiting on him. And the mix signals that he keeps giving you will only bring you to more confusing thoughts of “what if’s and maybe that’s.” You are going to be fine without him in your life. You were fine before right? Just think, you would be able to give up on him and stop putting all your energy on a lost cause and find somebody that would appreciate what you would put into a relationship. You’re too good for that. Every girl is too good for that. Hope that helps love!

Good luck!
XoXo
 
Sabby!