You may label us extroverts as high maintenance or unintellectual, or even mistake us for flirting every time we communicate. However, that’s not true! Us extroverts aren’t just social butterflies, we are energized by existing as one. Expressing our extroversion is vital to our every day, including immersing it into our love lives.
1. We crave a social contract
We THRIVE by generating social contracts. Interpersonal connections are important. Stop texting, log off your Facebook — us extroverts can recognize the value of a face-to-face conversation. Most of us hesitate to interact through technology because we are confident enough and rather attain a dialogue. Don’t even try to play that “put your phone in the middle, pick yours up first and pay the check” game at a restaurant. You will lose against an extrovert.
2. Your life will never be gambled upon
Our lives will never depend on yours. I know you’re thinking, this is not a reason to date an extrovert, but indeed it is. We can and will manage maintaining a healthy relationship with you. We love ourselves and we love you. We’d never become so utterly obsessed with our S.O. that either we end up losing our identity.
3. We will push you out of the house… and probably out of your comfort zone
Adventure awaits the extrovert 24/7. We are thirsty to conquer obstacles and try new things. Don’t be shocked by your S.O.’s outrageous suggestions because he or she was serious about each and every one.
4. Details, details and more details
We will shamelessly leave you eight bomb texts about that breathtaking burger we just devoured and of course we’d love if you returned the favor. Expect being questioned. We ultimately desire to uncover minute peculiarity you have to offer. Pre-occupying ourselves involves unraveling all your layers just for our lovin’.
5. We don’t beat around anything because there is NO bush
We will encourage you to spill your thoughts too. But, you will know how we are feeling, where, when and why we are feeling any sort of way. Our expressions are usually blunt and bold. Count on mastering the art of reading your S.O.’s face.
6. We tend to be the center of attention
We are not cocky, we are just confident in our ability to socialize.
7. And you’re a chunk of that center
Now, this isn’t suggesting to lose your sense of individualism in a relationship. We like you for you. But there is nothing more that compels an extrovert to radiate than seeing their S.O. shine. Accomplishments and acting as your amazing self are absolutely reasons you deserve our and other’s attention. We are the people who will whisper to the waiter that it is your birthday (when it is not) so you can be serenaded… and snag a free dessert.
8. You’ll “make new friends, but keep the old ones”
Your S.O. is bound ooze of excitement about you to his or her friends. Be prepared to form a connection with her pals.
9. Your S.O. will also be singing the same lyrics above…
We will yearn to meet the most important people in your life. If a person is important to you, then they are important to us. Plus we are able to learn about you by connecting with them. In conclusion, our relationship with you and your relationships are simply significant: plain and simple.
10. There is never a dull moment
The definition of a challenge is going to run errands without initiating a conversation with a stranger.
11. Your S.O. is a professional plus one
No need to worry about feeling responsible for us at social gatherings. We are interactive and your extrovert will probably be introducing you to her new friends by the end of the night.