Life Her Story

Over the last four weeks, I have straddled the equator line, zip-lined through a rainforest on the edge of the Amazon, and climbed to 15,780 feet above sea level on Cotopaxi, one of the highest active volcanoes in the world. I took 80 hours of intensive Spanish, learned how to make Ecuadorian soup with shrimp and plantain "meatballs," and had my first fluid and coherent conversation in another language. But six months ago, I was sitting in a cubicle at a desk job in relative misery, anxious, heartbroken and depressed. So let me start from the beginning. I went to college at Northeastern...
By Harper
Let’s get this straight. I am a feminist. I believe that women should be valued first and foremost for their character and intelligence, and that a woman’s looks or sexuality are not the sum of her worth to society. Why the disclaimer? Because some people think that, as a girl who had plastic surgery, I would only resort to such “extreme” measures if I was insecure or thought that, as a woman, my job is to be hot first and foremost. These people are under the impression that women shouldn’t wear makeup because they shouldn’t have to in order to be valued in society. This is half true. No one...
My life as a free-spirited and careless college freshman ended before it even started. I had graduated high school with the notion that I would attend a school far away from home and begin the next chapter of my life. Little did I know at the time that what I thought was a small decision I had made almost 4 years ago, would end up being life-altering. Sometimes it really is the smallest decisions that can change your life forever. I had been dating my boyfriend Paul* for nearly two years since my junior year of high school. My parents weren’t so keen on the idea of me leaving home right after...