Relationships are just a part of college. There’s no question about that. Romantic relationships, specifically, have a lot of emphasis put on them during this time. So, how do you get through college being single and happy about it? Here are our top 5 suggestions.
5. Surround yourself with people that make you happy.
It’s almost a guarantee that being around people who are gloomy will make you an unhappy person, too. So, doesn’t the opposite hold true? We think so. One of the best ways to be happy and single is to take your mind off of romantic relationships and make friends. Have fun and go for a girl’s night out. Be social and let your single flag fly.
4. Spend time helping others.
A smile is contagious. In order to help you be a happier person, spend time helping others. You will get a feeling of satisfaction and self-reward by helping those who need it most. Volunteering at a soup kitchen or an animal shelter can really help you do this. Most animal shelters don’t need help feeding or cleaning. What they really need are volunteers to come in and play with the animals. Showing love and care to others (whether they be animals or people) goes a long way.
3. Focus on your education.
This point seems boring, but don’t stop reading yet. Concentrating on your education will stimulate your need for a challenge, and you’ll also become more thoughtful in doing so. Besides, what man doesn’t like a smart woman? You’ll become more well-rounded and more respected.
2. Don’t try romantic relationships.
This sounds a bit terrible, but when you think about it, it makes sense. I’ve never actually been in a relationship. Sure, I’ve wanted one, but I’ve found that without ever being in a relationship, it’s a lot easier to be levelheaded and give advice to others. Also, looking at other people in relationships kind of reaffirms my decision to be single. Relationships really are a pain in the butt. There’s a whole bunch of stress and worry when you’re committed to someone. Sure, the butterflies in the beginning are nice, but I don’t think it’s worth the stress and almost inevitable heartache. This point focuses on the whole “Never know what you’re missing until you try it” approach. But don’t pass up an opportunity because you’re afraid of what might come out of it.
If you’ve already reached the point of no return, don’t fret. We’ve still got one more option.
1. Spend your love on yourself.
The best way to make yourself happy when you’re single is to spend the love on yourself. Don’t be ashamed to pamper yourself when you are feeling down. Take a break while you’re studying and watch your favorite TV show. Wear makeup just because or go out au natural and let your skin have a break. Dress up for those “dress down” kind of nights. Go to a spa. Play a video game or sing into your brush as loud as you can. I like to dance around my room when no one is looking. Do whatever you need to do to make yourself happy. It’s different for everyone but it’s so fun trying to figure out what works the best for you.