When I was single, I hated Valentine’s Day. I hated the holiday for many reasons; I felt alone and found myself wishing for the day to be over. Similar to other people, I felt all those feelings and emotions that make this holiday awful for single individuals. Before I got into a relationship, I started doing certain activities on this holiday, to make it a little more enjoyable. Even after being in a relationship, I still find myself doing these activities on this holiday because I enjoy and love traditions, which makes the day feel even better.
Making a really good breakfast
I don’t usually make myself a good breakfast. I typically will grab a bowl of cereal or something quick to get going with my day. On Valentine’s Day, I wanted to start my day off right with a big breakfast. I would plan my breakfast a day in advance, by choosing my ingredients and preparing the night before. Planning everything out makes it easier for me to enjoy and have a great breakfast. I practice this activity for every major holiday as it’s a great way to start the day.
Doing my makeup
I typically don’t wear a lot of makeup; usually just mascara and lip balm. If I have the chance to get dressed up and wear makeup, I take it. I know that I don’t need makeup to be pretty, but I love how I can dress up as if I was going out and feel like I could participate in this holiday. Each year I would pick a different theme, get an outfit and match my makeup. I feel like no matter what, even if I wasn’t going out, I could still be a part of this day.
Watching a movie
This is the big event of the day. When I was younger, I typically watched a Disney or Barbie movie. There was no theme to the movie, I just picked something that I had never watched before. As I got older, I would pick a new movie at the beginning of the year, to add to my list. I still keep this tradition going to this day. I love setting aside a day that is just for me and a movie of my choice.
Even being in a relationship, I still find so much joy in these activities on this holiday. I have never missed a year of doing this annual tradition and now, I practice them with my significant other. I think during this holiday season, self-love is important and should always be practiced, regardless of whether you are single or taken.