Due to COVID-19 taking our chances of going to in person school for many of us, almost everyone is anxious to go back to school. Going back to school is always a scary and nerve wrecking time, whether you’re going into your freshman year, going back to in person school, or going into a new school. Having confidence in the classroom is extremely important when making friends and bettering your education. Building confidence is like building a muscle, it takes time and patience to achieve, but it is worth it.
Having a Positive Mindset
Our mind and body is like a machine, if you treat it right, it will treat you right. If you constantly bring yourself down, you will limit yourself. Instead of telling yourself “I can’t do this,” tell yourself “Although I’m having a hard time now, I can do this.” Also, repeating affirmations in the morning to yourself will allow yourself to start your day off with a positive mindset. Even if you don’t feel confident yet, fake it until you make it. It takes time and patience, so don’t worry if you don’t all of a sudden feel a huge wave of confidence wash over you. By keeping a positive mindset, you’ll do better in your classes which will allow your confidence to grow.
Study
Although studying is not the most entertaining activity to do in your free time, it’ll help you feel more prepared in class. By feeling more prepared, you won’t be as stressed. Getting called on by your teacher to answer a question is a super nerve wracking and scary situation. Knowing what you’re learning in class will not only relieve some stress, but it will also boost your confidence. After a night of studying, you’ll walk into class feeling like the confident, smart queen you are.
Face your Fears
Facing your fears is easier said then done, but realizing almost everyone is feeling the same as you are is comforting. Everyone is scared and nervous in school, so you’re not alone. Even if it seems stressful, don’t be scared to reach out to the person next to you and start a conversation with them. You could start the conversation by complimenting their outfit, asking them how their day is, or what their class schedule is. Putting yourself out there and making friends can make you feel more comfortable and confident in the class.
HCXO!