It is so cliche hearing couples nowadays talking about how their partner doesn’t seem to do what they like. Many common terms that are said are “he doesn’t seem to do what I like” or I can’t get her to do this.”
All of the struggle and strife can be solved with such an easy solution, which is called COMMUNICATION! When it comes to sex, if there is one thing that should be done more then touching, it’s talking to one another. I’m not talking about having a full on conversation because your mind would really be focused on a little something else. Sex is not a place you go to see you partners most vulnerable parts. It is a place you go to see what goes on in your partner’s red light district. With that being said, if you can have that courage to let him inside you and if you can have the courage to give her head in an instant then you can use that courage to open up your mouth to tell your partner. According to livescience.com “New research finds that comfort with sexual communication is directly linked to sexual satisfaction.” People who are more comfortable talking about sex are also more likely to do so while having sex, the researchers found. Nonetheless, that difference doesn’t fully explain why the sexually chatty are happier with their erotic lives.” said Elizabeth Babin, expert on health communication at Cleveland State University in Ohio.
The best part of talking through sex is that it makes you even hornier learning more about your partner when your in their red light district, and finding out their safe word is “pineapples”. But, like I said in the beginning, the only way you can get whatever you want during your nocturnal endeavors is to communicate to one another. There seems to be this stigma that women are the least sexual beings, when they are really just as equally as nasty as their male counter parts.
To include all people from genders that are binary and non-binary, it doesn’t matter what your partner is whether it be gender fluid, transgender, bisexual or genderqueer, a few words go a long way to satisfy your partner and you.