What a time to be alive. You’ve just graduated from high school, equipped with youthful energy and thoughtful resolve. Not too long ago you just got the acceptance letter from the world renown university, El Colegio. Without a doubt your excitement is justified. I was there – I remember the very lightness of being that came with forming part of the green blooded tribe that will form part of my identity for the rest of my days. In retrospect, the life of a college freshman (prepa) was one of discovery – of the self, of the world, and again, of the self. It wasn’t all perfect, but as I sip my drink and reminisce over times past, every moment was integral for who I am today. However, as much as I think of the past, I understand it is something that I can’t change, and with that comes both a cold and warm comfort. I write these words to you, dear prepa (and anyone willing to pay attention), because I wish I had them when I was in your position.
Time, friends, class and leisure are four of the most crucial areas of interest. There may be many more, but these areas are what I believe to be the best suited to give you a brief guide for effective, beneficial living in El Colegio.
Time:
Prepa, a wise man once said that time is the only luxury. Why? Because no matter what, it’s the only thing you can’t get back. That being said, the best advice I can give to you is to respect your time and that of others. During this period, life has an uncanny ability of complicating itself. Situations will pile up and guess what? Your time will be stretched thin. Be wise, enjoy yourself, but understand that there is a tomorrow waiting on the other side chock full of its own challenges.
It’s true what they say about time – it’s of the essence. Do not rush yourself, but be aware of people and situations that will take precious time away from you.
Friends:
Remember the prepa orientation at Mangual? Well, you will be passing by those people and thousands of more during your time at El Colegio. I understand that you might be timid, but in the long run, that will only hinder your progress during your stay – leave it behind! Take initiative, stretch your hands and be friendly. El Colegio is known to be a place where people become lifelong friends, and all it takes is a forward thinking attitude.
Class:
You’ve been accepted to one of the best universities on the island (the best, depending on who you ask), and it’s the best for reason. The classes will be hard, and they will be stressful. This is how it’s going to be for the next couple of years, this is how it’s always going to be and this is why you are here! You might seem overwhelmed at first, but as you get used to the current of the river that is college, you’ll learn to float and eventually swim. Bumps and bruises will happen, but push through. Center your priorities around doing your best here. The high school banter of being a nerd is in the past. Those who accept the challenge with open arms will prevail, those who don’t will struggle. Be about that life – it’s no one else’s future but your own. Hold yourself responsible for your success.
Leisure:
La Calle! Yes. The western holy land of beer and debauchery. Many a time I have found myself in the throes of a sweaty dance floor, spilling cold beer on my shoes, dancing with strangers and paying rounds. Even though those are moments I would never trade, I do wish I would have diversified my stress relieving activities a bit more. Though going to la calle is the popular choice, keep in mind that you can partake in other forms of stress relieving leisure. The diversity of students in Mayagüez provides for an abundance of activities and hobbies that can take your mind off college.
Unfortunately, I have had seen friends slowly become insomniacs and alcoholics thanks in great part to their constant visits to La Bosque. I would rather not play the role of concerned parent, but for the sake of your parents not becoming concerned, take care of yourself. The mind and body are a terrible thing to waste, especially when you have only begun to scratch the surface of your potential. Be cool, be smart.
Like I mentioned previously, I wish had this advice when I was a prepa. I can only hope that you can relate with everything I wrote here today, and If I’m extra lucky, you’ll take it to heart. The prepas are a hopeful group, full of energy and motivation; I only wish to help keep the energy alive. Time flies when you’re having fun, and it is even better when you’re getting your money’s worth. Stay woke my friends
Sincerely,
Ovalle