HC UConn is trying out a new section where our own “Abby” answers questions about friendships, relationships, you name it! Read on as Abby bestows her wisdom for the first time.
Dear Abby,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and he’s always been a flirty guy, but lately I’ve been noticing that he’s a little TOO flirty with a lot of girls. How do I talk to him about this without starting a fight?
Sincerely,
Not A Fan Of The Flirting
Dear Not A Fan Of The Flirting,
I think that your question really comes down to one thing: do you trust your boyfriend?
If you do, then I don’t think that you have anything to worry about, because there is a big difference between flirting every once and a while and actually acting on that behavior. However, you deserve to feel confident and secure in your relationship, and if the fact that he flirts with other girls truly bothers you, then you should definitely sit down with him and have an open conversation about it. In the end, a truly good guy will appreciate your honesty and the fact that you care enough about him and your relationship to want it to be the best that it can be.
Good Luck Girl!
Abby