Despite being a vegetarian for six-ish years I’m still not used to the weird questions that I get asked or the weird things people feel like they need tell me. As I talked to my vegan friend she told me that she gets asked or told the same things as me. We both agreed that they were really annoying (and even a bit offensive at times!). So here’s a PSA to my lovely meat-eaters, please stop saying these things:
- Plants have feelings too!
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So they def don’t have feelings. But even if they did don’t animals have feelings too? Please don’t make me feel guilty for killing carrots.
- You’re not one of those weird vegans/vegetarians, right?
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I really hope not! I try my best to be accepting and make people feel comfortable around me! But, I’m sorry if one of my veggie siblings were mean to you!
- So if you were on an island and if you had to kill/eat a cow to survive would you?
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Who wants to kill something? I think most people wouldn’t want to kill the food that they eat. But, choosing life over literally dying of starvation doesn’t make me a bad vegetarian. It just makes me someone who likes being alive.
- That’s stupid because of x,y and z
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Okay! That’s totally cool for you to think that. But can you say that to literally anyone else?
- But, you are eating animals’ food! I thought you loved animals!
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I do! That’s why I’m eating animals’ food and not animals :)
- You can sneak this bite I won’t tell anyone!
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I promise Peta isn’t holding me hostage! I actually like being a vegetarian! In fact, I actually would get sick if I ate meat at this point so I don’t want to sneak a bite. Thanks for sharing though!
- How can you live without bacon?
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Honestly, when you don’t eat meat for a while it starts to smell weird. I know it’s crazy but, bacon smells horrible to me. Even if I went back to eating meat I’m sure I wouldn’t eat bacon.
I choose to be a vegetarian because I couldn’t morally justify eating animals. But, I don’t expect people to think the same way or do the same things as me. The cool thing about people is that everyone is different. The only thing I ask is for other people to respect my choices in the same way that I respect theirs. You can ask vegetarians/vegans questions…I love answering them! But, maybe next time? Try not to say these things.