I Just Got a Blue Guy and He's Not Smurf

So this weekend I finally did something I have been dying to do for the past 3 to 4 years. I bought a dildo, a vibrator, and a skinner dildo that vibrates.


So how was it? AMAZING!! I wasn’t sure what I would enjoy. So I figured I would buy a bunch of things and try them all out.  You know. For science. 

Spoiler alert: I didn’t really enjoy the dildo. 


I think I preferred the vibrator but my favorite thing was the blue skinny dildo that vibrates. I nicknamed him, “my blue guy.” I, like many women, was unaware of the g-spot until I turned on the vibration setting on my blue guy. I was in heaven for about 3 minutes when I sat up and went, “what the fuck, just happened in my body.” 

Ladies if you don't know where your g-spot is drop everything and find it! Here are a few things you should know! 


  • The G-spot also is known as the Gräfenberg spot and is one of the ways women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone. While only 18 percent of women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone it is doable though the g-spot if you know how to get to it correctly! 

  • Keep in mind to use a come hither motion with your fingers to really hit that spot properly. I know it sounds strange but it works like a charm ladies. I would also recommend that you utilize your blue guys if you have you own. Everyone's bodies are different, but using my blue guy really helped me find my g-spot and now I don’t even need it to orgasm but I love to have him around. 

At the end of the day, ladies, I wish you a wonderful orgasm or better yet, wonderful orgasms! I want you all to take control of your own bodies and create a space for yourself to explore who you are. I think you can do this with a partner, without a partner, or with even with a blue guy! However, you choose to pursue this do it in a way that makes you happy. Happy orgasms ladies!