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Sincerely Cowboy

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at OK State chapter.

What qualities in a woman are men attracted to and NOT attracted to?
 
Of course everyone is born with a different personality and all sorts of variety in tastes. However, I have some basic attributes that men are and are not looking for in a woman to have a relationship with.
 
Attractive Traits for Women:
 
1.     Positive Outlook
Men love a woman who smiles all the time and have a happy positive energy aurora surrounding her. Having a cheerful woman by our side makes our lives seem so much easier.
 
2.     Unpredictability
Men love the thrill of chasing someone who is attractive. But what happens after he catches what he wants? The thrill disappears. To keep his life from being boring, he needs to be kept in suspense. Take him to new places and do new things with him. Who wants predictability and ordinary in their life? Nobody.
 
3.     Aggressive
This is my favorite trait. Men love a woman who isn’t afraid to get what they want. Men view aggressive women as passionate and sexy women. Taking the role of initiating contact, a kiss, and other things make us feel desirable. 
 
Unattractive Traits for Women:

1.     Inconsiderate
Do you care for your partner? Or are your priorities always first?
Being inconsiderate to your loved one is a horrible thing to do especially if you are the most important person to him. Not even participating with him or doing hobbies he likes with him could be a disastrous effect later on.
 
2.     Drama, Drama, Drama
Guys do not enjoy a drama queen. Being the center of attention and constantly talking about your problems throughout most of the day is not what guys want to hear. Guys want everything to be easy and simple. Not complicated and dramatic!
 
3.     Cheater
The worst trait, cheating. No guy wants to be ever mistreated by someone they love. Sure, we aren’t that emotional, but everyone can feel a broken heart. If you love someone enough to not hurt him, cheating wouldn’t even cross your mind.

  

Becca is an Oklahoma State University fashion journalism student. After she graduates in December, she wants to work for British Vogue. She believes that although a $1,200 sundress looks fantastic on the runway, there are less expensive alternatives to looking fabulous. Knowing how to shop on a budget is a vital skill for every college woman. She has recently completed a life-changing study abroad experience in London and a visual merchandising internship at White House Black Market in Dallas. Becca wants to show the fashion world that you can look beautiful without breaking the bank.