On Friday, September 7th, 2018, Pittsburgh rapper, Mac Miller, was reportedly found dead in his Studio City home. The cause of his death was due to a drug overdose. Mac Miller’s battle with addiction first began after his career took off in 2011. He reportedly started using marijuana to cope with his depression, but later turned to other drugs. Miller’s family spoke out and stated that he was a “bright light in this world for his family, friends, and fans.” He will be dearly missed within the music industry.
Soon after Miller’s death, fans began flooding his ex-girlfriend, Ariana Grande, with comments on her social media placing blame on her for his death. Ariana was truly devastated to hear about her former ex-boyfriend’s death. However, the public reaction was deemed extremely inappropriate. Grande was reportedly hospitalized shortly after Miller’s death due to the overwhelming amount of anxiety caused by the public’s response.
By blaming Ariana for Mac Miller’s death, one is only perpetuating the notion that women must continue to stay in toxic relationships in order to try to “fix” their partner. Ariana was victimized for “failing” to take responsibility for her ex-partner. Society has created a culture that further emphasizes power hierarchies and the idea that women must be caregivers and ensure that their partner is making ethical choices, as it will become a reflection of them. However, all of this is false. No one was responsible for Mac Miller’s death. Drug addiction is a cruel disease that can take control of one’s life and ultimately lead to one’s death.
Ariana shared a strong connection with Mac and always wanted the best for him. Following his death, Ariana spoke out a week later stating “I adored later you from the day I met you when I was nineteen and I always will. I can’t believe you aren’t here anymore. I really can’t wrap my head around it. We talked about this. So many times. I’m so mad; I’m so sad I don’t know what to do. You were my dearest friend. For so long. Above anything else. I’m so sorry I couldn’t fix or take your pain away. I really wanted to. The kindest, sweetest soul with demons he never deserved. I hope you’re okay now. Rest.”
The best thing one can do after Mac Miller’s death is to offer compassion and support to Miller’s family and friend, including Ariana. If you or anyone you know are in need of help, contact the Substance Abuse Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).