Joining a sorority is a big decision to make, there are many positive things that come from a sisterhood, along with things that I was not ready for when I joined. Getting through the pandemic with little ability to meet new people has been a struggle for many, rushing can be a great experience to get more involved with your campus.
- It’s expensive… like, really expensive
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Joining a sorority can be expensive, depending on the chapter you join. When going through recruitment you will be given a pamphlet about the expenses for the chapter. Pay attention to this! This pamphlet will tell you what yearly dues are, including the fees for living in the chapter house. Many MU sororities require members to live in for a minimum of two years, and understanding the costs associated with living-in is detrimental to making your final decision on who’s bid you accept. When given the pamphlet, feel free to ask questions about special consideration financing and how the bills are broken up monthly.
- Many chapters are only hosting online only events or events with a limited numbers of girls
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The pandemic is still a concern for MU sororities, and your health is at the top of that concern. If you feel as though paying dues during the semester to only attend Zoom meetings or a few in-person events is unfair, wait until formal recruitment in the fall.
Personally, I still enjoy the few sisterhood events my chapter hosts throughout the semester. There are many other opportunities to bond with other members in safe, socially distant ways.
- Even with online-only events, sororities take up a lot of time
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This past semester has not been nearly as busy as previous semesters due to rules and regulations with COVID-19, but there are still many required events. My chapter requires members to meet for chapter meetings each Monday, only exempting members who are in class or taking exams. You might also be required to join a committee with your chapter, which will likely meet throughout the week as different events come up. I have been able to balance work, school and sorority events throughout the past two years, but I acknowledge the stress that may come with feeling overloaded on events and meetings. Take this into consideration before committing to any sorority.
- Sisterhood is sacred, but you will still have rough spots
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I can say, personally, that I enjoy the presence of every member that I have met, but this doesn’t mean that they don’t occasionally get on my nerves. Just like being in any group of people for long amounts of time, you will have disagreements with other girls. There will likely be drama from time to time, but at the end of the day, a sister is a sister and most things are handled quickly.
- You will always have a hype man
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I can promise you this, you will gain a large following on socials with girls who are excited to hype you up. Not only will your Instagram see a glow up, but you’ll also find a group of girl that will be there for you through thick and thin. My roommates this year have helped me through the best and worst of times, and I’m sure they would say the same.
Recruitment can be an intimidating thing to go through, but joining a sorority to find a group of friends who will hold you accountable and keep you involved on campus is completely worth it. After weighing all your options and considering things from the list above will ensure that you join a sisterhood that is best fit for you. Happy rushing!